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S6 D73 No Reassurance or Platitudes Thanks

little health up date. I have to have another MRI scan, see a neuro surgeon and a neurologist. I found that everyones reassurance and platitudes became really annoying! It probably is nothing, but when you are afraid that you may have some horrible diagnosis, you need people to acknowledge and allow you to be scared, to talk about your concerns and to let them go. Bottling them up, hiding any concern really isnt helpful. Just my opinion. Would be interested to hear what you guys think about that?!

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DonnaOnTheBeach Comment by DonnaOnTheBeach on November 13, 2009 at 6:13pm
Lol - I was kidding about taking the video down! Thanks Jilly for your comments - although I am very grateful for my friends, you did make me realise how lucky I am to have so many people who care for me...there could be so much worse things in life than friends being reassuring!!!! Lol. Thank you too for your blessings - they are gratefully received! x
DonnaOnTheBeach Comment by DonnaOnTheBeach on November 13, 2009 at 5:53pm
Jilly - like what you saw when you saw my name! Did I say I fell away from cocreation???? If I did, I lied! I have not at all - I am still doing all the practices that help me. And I am not annoyed by the positive intentions - I am annoyed by people pretending there is no problem. I am not a big fan of 'positive thinking' when it is ignoring reality. I believe you need to go from where you are (fear, doubt, anger, whatever) and raise your vibration from there, not just pretend there is no fear, doubt, anger etc. I love it when people hold a positive intention for me, but in the case of the people I am talking about I feel it is not a positive intention, it is ignoring the Titanic sinking. Perhaps that is just my perception!

I am very grateful for everything in my life - including this situation which I know will bless me somehow. Perhaps this video showed a skewed perspective as I was just having a moan essentially! And I did not mean to say that the people themselves are annoying, just this aspect of their participation in my life. oh dear, I want to just take the video down! xx
Jilly Comment by Jilly on November 13, 2009 at 12:31pm
Hmmm...I ususally say what people don't want to hear. . . the truth about things. I have been there many times, also on the recieving end of such.
I'd like to share that when the occasion to see your name "donna on the beach" ...all I saw was that person that named herself that on this site. I saw a carefree gal walking along the shore, enjoying the sites and sounds of the ocean as the waves kissed the sand beneath her feet.
I have noticed you said in your video that you fell away from that person that joined Co-Creator and didnt involve herself in the selfhealing practices of the Law of Attraction.
How many times have we all seen in ourselves and others the urgency to turn to the source in times of trouble. We have sperts of wonderful intentions when times are good, but bam ...intense urgency when something in our lives is not going well. Not always is it illness. Sometimes the occasion is finanial and sometimes its relationships. Be it as it may. Is the lesson here that we should keep focused on the Law and never lose site of the source/universe/God no matter what the circumstance, smooth sailing and when its not? Does the falling away of our focus cause a shift for the unfriendly times to sneak into our lives?
I can only advise you to keep focused on the Law. Dont be anoyed by others positive affirmation for you, be instead immensely GRATEFUL. I would like to bring to your rememberance the effects of being GRATEFUL for everything in your life. One would say that you should be also grateful for the trial that you are going through, as it has opened your eyes to how many friends,relative and people in your life are GRATEFUL to have you in their life. You have learned they love you with all their well wishing, and positive affirmations. All those annoying people you talk of, only have a wonderful VISION of "DONNA ON THE BEACH " AS I DO.
Draw closer to the source/universe/GOD, and dont let Worry and Fear seperate you from it.
I will forever hold the image of Donna on the Beach, Blessings and well wishes to you my new friend, JILLY
DonnaOnTheBeach Comment by DonnaOnTheBeach on November 13, 2009 at 12:13pm
That is EXACTLY it - you've hit the nail right on the head! Thankyou. Ooh, you're wise! :-) I appreciate that so much - not only that you heard me, but that you put it so well! xxxxxxxx
createfate Comment by createfate on November 13, 2009 at 11:00am
Yes...You are saying that you need some VALIDATION for the seriousness of what it COULD be....Seems that no body wants to go there... My guess is without that validation it makes this a lonelier process!!! You want to be heard....Well I hear you!!! Even from Mn. lolllll and you are dealing with this remarkably!!! I am pretty sure I would be scare to death!!! What an incredible oppurtunity to learn from... Again "I hear you"

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