Day 10, Season 1 - Does talking about negative experiences, draw them to you?

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Comment by Elise on October 12, 2008 at 5:14am

Wiw...I am so lucky to have found this website and all of you wonderful people......I truly mean it......Your responses are so concise and helpful and I hope I can be of great help to you in my experiences. Peace and happy Manifesting! X Elise

Comment by Alix Fateh Mathias on October 11, 2008 at 5:52pm

I have made a video response to your video...to view..go to my page. Peace.

Comment by Jennifer de la Cruz on October 10, 2008 at 3:05pm

Elise, Yeah, it is funny that at my Psych-K training this weekend, my instructor (inspirational woman) talked about this. But what she said, and I realized to be sooo true, is that some people get stuck in their story, that this story usually never changes even in different circumstances, that we can only help by not getting dragged down into the cloud of negativity that surrounds them (misery loves company). She used this example: You go on a cruise with your friend, and neither of you know how to swim. Well your friend accidentally falls into the water, and starts flailing and crying out: "I'm drowning." A sympathetic person will stand there, look at the person and cry along with them feeling very bad for them that they are dying, "I feel so bad for you, you are drowning!" An empathetic person will look down and decide (even though they cannot swim) to jump in and be with that person in their sorrowful state, and they eventually drown together. A compassionate person will simply respond by throwing them a life saver.
Provide them with the tools that have worked for you, and then let them empower themselves, because then it is their strength that they depend on, not yours.
Hope this helps you!
Peace and Love,
Jennifer

Comment by Chenelle on October 10, 2008 at 8:56am

Hi Elise, maybe you could help others by just focusing on how you got over them, because LOA reacts by feeling more than the actual words themeselves so maybe talking about them brought back that fear within you. So you can talk about i.e meditating to make yourself feel relaxed and confident about things. The words relaxed and confident and the feelings they provoke are much more positive and are better feeling thoughts. Sorry if i sound confusing, i will try and do a video on it, and im sure you will get a lot of help from others also, Have a great day.

Comment by Eric on October 9, 2008 at 11:54pm

OMG Elise, I have so much to say, but I must sleep. Please remind me to comment. Courage, Eric. Please be a friend on CCOR.