SEASON 1 | DAY 66 | GET THE LIFE YOU WANT ~ RICHARD BANDLER ~ THE FATHER AND COCREATOR OF NLP (NEURO-LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING)

[Bonnie David]

WHEN PEOPLE SAY THEY`RE FRUSTRATED, IT`S ACTUALLY A VERB.
WHEN PEOPLE SAY "I HAVE DOUBTS," THEY'VE TURNED THE VERB INTO A NOUN AND MADE IT SO THAT IT BECOMES AN EVENT OR A THING.
WHEN PEOPLE SAY "I HAVE FRUSTRATION," THEY DON'T ACTUALLY HAVE A BUCKET OF FRUSTRATION.
THEY'RE IN THE PROCESS OF BEING FRUSTRATED.
THAT IS AN ACTIVITY.
WHEN YOU TURN IT BACK INTO AN ACTIVITY, YOU CAN FIND OUT SO MUCH MORE ABOUT IT.
SO WHEN THERAPISTS AND PSYCHIATRISTS SAY TO SOMEBODY, "HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT FEELING FRUSTRATED?" OR "HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT FEELING DISAPPOINTED?", THEY MISS THE MOST IMPORTANT INFORMATION.
WE KNOW THERE'S ANOTHER WAY THAT WE PROCESS THE WORLD.
OUR UNDERSTANDING OF THE ENDEMIC BRAIN TELLS US THAT THE CONNECTION BETWEEN ALL THE ORGANS IS AS SOPHISTICATED AS THE SYNAPSES INSIDE THE BRAIN AND ACTUALLY ALLOWS US TO THINK WITH FEELINGS.