i don't get it!!!!

[Cocolilly]

I have been trying to live in the moment, to stay positive, vibe with the whole LOA stuff, and it is going well. I do feel good, things that kind of upset me easily, are resolved quicker. I am not in horrible moods for days, more hours and I have been working hard to get the negative mood swings down to mins.

My thing now is that I feel that people think that I think that I am 'better than them'. I don't know how this is happening cause I have tried hard not to get into other peoples drama's. I try to distance myself from others negative thoughts just by not getting drawn into their conversation, but I do support them in the positive and express gratitude for them.

Just as I write this I am thinking what is my intention behind it all. Why am I doing this, does the internal intention mirror the external manifestation. Thinking objectively about it, yes. I want people to to see that I like myself, but that is being manifested is an arrogant love of self, not a humble, unassuming way that I thought that I was showing.

Back to the drawing board I think.

I just wana have friends that I can hang with and chat about this kind of stuff with and enjoy myself and not have to think they think anything of me, I can just be and not be judged.

I don't really know what day I am on now in the season, but what I do know is I have moved forward a lot, I have read loads and had much to consider. There are other things that I need to work on, one of them being stop thinking, and start living. Love myself like I want to be loved and be the best friend that I seek in others.

Oh, well that is the end of my rant. Soz if it sounds so self absorbed and woe is me, I am a bit clearer just writing this, but if anyone in co-creators land feels the same or have any tips in manifesting great friends or how I can become my own best friend, leave a comment.

Thanks for reading

Cocolilly

[Morg]

Maybe people are noticing that you are 'better than you used to be' and are getting it confused with a 'better than them' attitude. That can happen sometimes. I wouldn't write them off immediately, allow them some time to get used to the change in you. As far as being you own best friend, that's simple. You just do it. Treat yourself the way you would want a best friend to treat you. Complement yourself, be brutally honest when it's necessary, and give yourself bonding time with you. I really hope things get better.

[Jennifer]

Hi Coco:

I have the same problem. I have friends, mainly negative thinking friends. It all boils down to LOA. I know in my case, if you are a negative human being (oh I was the worst), then you attract negative people. It's like misery loves company and all that.

As for advice, the only thing I can suggest, is just continue on your path. You know who you are, you love yourself, that's a good start. If you continue this way then other like minded people will be attracted to you.

Right now, I'm just becoming my own best friend. I'm at a point that I don't need people because I wanna get to know myself better. If you're beyond this point, just be patient and be who you are. If you build it, they will come, lol...

Blessings,
Jen