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One of my personal struggles most of my life has been allowing the negativity of others towards me throw me into a downward spiral. I'm having major breakthroughs with handling negativity differently and would love some ideas and feedback from others

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I have always struggled with the negativity of others getting me down and breaking my confidence. Since I began taking part in the 100 Day Reality Challenge, I have REALLY worked on this issue. Today, I had a major breakthrough. I had a voice message from an aquaintence that was very rude, to say the least. I told my husband what she said and I started laughing about it!! You would just have to know me to realize what a wonderful transformation I'm going through.

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Sedna Comment by Sedna on April 15, 2009 at 8:49pm
Motivational and uplifting song can help you to gain more energy and hence you can easily manifest your desire more effectively or in a short cut way, listen to motivational song often in the car while driving or play the song while you are at home will influence your subconscious mind, manifest your dream without your knowing.
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Jennifer Comment by Jennifer on April 2, 2009 at 2:49pm
Yvonne:

If it helps, take a moment to yourself. Just breathe deep, meditate, do whatever you need to center yourself. To ground yourself....Once grounded, you will see things in a better perspective. When we feel chaotic or just stressed in general, our emotions, not to mention our power is flying all over the place.

I think you're on the right path, just keep up the good work!!
Yvonne Comment by Yvonne on April 2, 2009 at 9:48am
Thank you so much Jennifer.
I noticed in the last two days that not only did I give that 'bad person' more power (Like you said) I also focused on it so much I now have trouble in my own relationship with my partner and not just a little....I want to fight so much to get my 'will' across I don't do myself any good. I will take this weekend off to nurture the happy giving side in me bevor bevor I get lost in this emotional chaos. Thank you again.
Jennifer Comment by Jennifer on March 31, 2009 at 11:56am
Yvonne:

Like the situation that I was just in, I feel what you're going through. I had to personally address the issue otherwise it would not get resolved. In your situation, I think of it like this...

If you are able to stay positive around the 'bad person', then try to continue after you leave. I know it's easy to be calm around someone, but when they aren't around, you fume and wonder "Why didn't I say or do this?" The more I fume, the madder I get. Then I stop. I know that by continuing to be upset by that person, I am just giving them power. They may not know I'm upset, but it's still negative energy that I am putting out there. If the person is negative (obviously) then by sending the negative energy out there, I'm just fueling their own negativity.

Good grief, I hope that made sense, lol....

Have a fantastic day!
Yvonne Comment by Yvonne on March 30, 2009 at 3:52pm
Is there a 'method' you can apply to help loved ones when you notice they are being treated badly or in an unfair way yet you cannot address the cause (meaning the person who is treating them badly) directly? I stay positive around them (also when the 'bad person' is around and that seems to have a calming effect on the situation) but whenever I leave I still feel frustration trying to surface because the situation remains unchanged.
Jennifer Comment by Jennifer on March 13, 2009 at 8:15pm
Hi All:

Update on the situation where I was tested on. It all worked out in my favor. Just like I knew it would. Thanks everyone for the positive thoughts!
CreativeConqueror Comment by CreativeConqueror on March 12, 2009 at 11:03pm
Today, I was grateful for the help of friends to help me switch my focus and allow positivity.
Jennifer Comment by Jennifer on March 12, 2009 at 6:39pm
Thank you Rob and Lisa for the encouragement. Unfortunately, this particular issue is not yet over, however tomorrow is another day. I believe by then everything will be settled to my satisfaction and in a positive manner.
Lisa Comment by Lisa on March 12, 2009 at 4:17pm
Good job Jennifer. I had an issue as well this morning, and I allowed someone to make me get upset. It was something that needed to be discussed and I did in a positive manner and I am just waiting to see what this person's next move will be.

Sometimes it is hard, but I keep plugging along and wish for the best.
Rob Comment by Rob on March 12, 2009 at 12:50pm
well done jennifer, on bringing it back , keep remembering , you are the boss of you, you are responisible, your not to blame for others negativity , but you are responsible for how you react to it, as rose said it does take time, but once aware , its easy to spot a situation and get out of it,
 

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