Fine Tuning The Secret

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Comment by Jilly on September 18, 2009 at 6:13pm

Right ON Kahea, YOU have a fantastic additude. You are right that great job is on the way and you don't want to be strapped down to that old one and having to give a 2 week notice when the great job shows up. The great job must be close or the Universe would not have allowed this to happen so soon. Im excited for you. ♥JILLY♥

Comment by Kahea on September 18, 2009 at 4:45pm

I got Fired Today! hahahaha I was so sad...It's only been a week and we haven't even had any customers. Friday night as you all know was busy and I did great and I had compliments all over. Monday I think I had one person and he got a sandwich and Tuesday I got sent hom early cause there was no business, Wednesday I was there by myself and there was only one guy and I made him a beer and 2 shots of jager. Thursday I didn't have to work and Today haha Friday I got fired. Now I am posting this to let everyone know that just because you got fired doesn't mean you were thinking about or worrying about getting fired. Infact the thought of getting fired never even crossed my mind. I was positive and clear. I was happy and content...BUT when I think about what I asked for...I asked for a place that was comfortably busy, a place where I could work full time, a place where I could bring home $150+ a night, a place where I could focus on bartending alone...haha this place did not meet any of those requirements...Let me tell you why I was let go, according to management. We received a menu and we never went through it with the management...so I had some questions. When I went up to my bar manager, he didn't know the answers....he told me to go to the servers, but they only knew some of the answers. So when I had a question like what was the fish served with...no one knew. This is a reasonable question. When you have never seen the plate, when no one has gone over with you what is on the plate...and you ask is there rice on the side or veggies or a baked potato, then someone should know and tell you yes there is this or no there isn't...well it wasn't on the menu, it wasn't on the computer, and so I asked the chef who is also the owner. now keep in mind there was no business so he wasn't busy or overwhelmed when I approached him, he was just casually chopping some vegies for a shish cabob. I said oh is that the shish cabob? I heard there was 2...I thought they were smaller, you know just casual light conversation about what I saw him doing. He was like you need to learn the menu and I told him how many you get is not on the menu I also mentioned that what's on the plate is not on the menu and I asked a few people and no one knew. Next thing you know....he talked to one manager, that manager talked to my manager and I was called into the office and told that I am not catching up as fast as everyone else. I said in my defence...do you know how many people I asked before I went to John? haha I even showed her the menu and said there is no info on here about what comes on the side of the Fish or on the side of the Meat. I knew the apatizers you know like you get a pre dinner salad and stuff like that...I knew that....I didn't know what was on The Plate :) You know like when you make a steak at home for your man you make mashed potatoes with it and maybe some asparagus...that's what I was asking. Well that was that...and my bar manager told me to call him if I need a recommendation. So...I am thinking that the reason I got fired was cause this job was not meeting my needs...it was not meeting that which I asked the universe for. I think that part of the reason I got the job was so that I could lose fear of going after the bartending job to begin with. I was holding off for a serving job, and then was going to ease into bartending and the Universe said You don't need to do that, you have the skills, see...we'll show you...and then I got the job and the Universe said, but this isn't the place, it's too slow for you hahahaha So that is my oppinion. Yes I was sad and I did cry because I felt like that was a lame reason to fire me, I was hurt that I was seeking to be more knowledgable about my job and lost it because of that. I always showed up to work clean and on time and never had to ask about how to bartend...I got my basic training and asked simple things that I didn't know...which is the case with any job...but you know what I realize, Ignorance is bliss in this country (and some other places too). When I was little and I asked questions at school...I would get told by teacher's that I asked too many quesitons...I stoped for years because that's what they kept telling my mom, but you know what...other people didn't know. They faked like they knew and when the teacher's weren't looking they cheated and these are the kids that got promoted and praised. I remember one day when we were taking a test and AS SOOON AS THE TEACHER WALKED OUT...EVERYONE was like what's the answer to number this and that and answers were flying everywhere...The "SMART" people included (and don't get me wrong, I was smart...but I was smart for what I knew, not what I cheated on, I'm talking about the fake smarties). It's kind of sad, but people would rather cheat and/or fail, than ask a question...and the people like me that ask, sometimes have to look like...well hahaha I don't really know what I look like to them. But that is why I know what I know now, because I didn't settle for what was shoved down my throat, when people didn't know...I went to the library, I did research, I dug deep online and FOUND THE ANSWERS! So I say to you DO NOT ACCEPT IGNORANCE! ASK! SEEK THE TRUTH! SEEK THE ANSWERS! There is a Great Career Bartending for me! I will find the right place. I am VERY HAPPY I GOT FIRED! Cause if you can't ask your co-workers or managers what's included in the dish without having to worry about losing your job, then it's not the right place to be hahaha SO With that...My Tears Are DONE!

Comment by Jilly on September 17, 2009 at 11:47pm

Hi Georgeanne, How exciting for you. You are right the Law will be right there with you and is already delivering your intentions. Dont mention worry, or else you get more of it. And I believe it will be EASY to prosper doing freelance. Never say NOT.
YOU Rock Georgeanne...those mindmovies are helping.
Blessings, JILLY

Comment by Georgeanne Olive on September 17, 2009 at 9:29pm

Off to Tennessee tomorrow to the Rhythm and Roots Festival. My musician, the one I book, is playing there. It is also my birthday weekend. I am finding the LOA is working in my life...I am expecting things to fall into place and am not worrying about where the money will come from...not always easy when one makes a living doing freelance work. I mentioned 'MindMovies' before. I have not made my own, but do watch the pre-made ones every day. I think it helps.

Comment by Kahea on September 17, 2009 at 8:55pm

Yeah, that's a good idea...but I like the slow flow here too. It's good having people that are Really interested in being here. But I think that is still a great idea to send to our members. :) hey you should look up Paul Eugene on You Tube haha He has GREAT FUN Aerobics videos on there and he is sooooooo funny and he does all his videos for God hahaha it's so great, he helped me lose 15 lbs. I am going to start him up again soon.

Comment by Jilly on September 17, 2009 at 7:56pm

Hi Kahea, Im here, I have joined the 100 day fittness challenge group and have been preparing for it. I have been walking a mile a day and I am trying to work up to 2 miles. I would like to lose 20 pounds for this challenge.
Interesting thing happened today. ON my walk there were two ladies behind me within ear shot and I would hear what they were saying. One lady asked the other...have you ever heard of the "Law of Attraction"...I giggled and under my breath said...Yeah...ah...ah...!!!
This Law of Attraction thing is drawing more of itself to me.
We need to some how draw more people to get involved on this page. Maybe if you write the group and ask them to contribute or comment or share whats going on since they joined the co-creator.
Love and Peace JILLY

Comment by Kahea on September 17, 2009 at 6:45pm

haha what happened to everyone? Did you all go on vacation? :P

Comment by Kahea on September 15, 2009 at 11:28pm

Well Marcella, your experiences brings on the question, how much does thinking positive change the world? If we were not thinking positive, would there be no physical good in the world? And I don't mean all that what ever you see babble...I mean real physical evidence...like a scientific measurement...like ok well more people are thinking positive in the world and therefore crime has gone down drastically, murders and assults have gone down drastically, people are living longer....If 60 or 70% of the planet was mainly focused on being around the good in everone else...would this create more good in the world...because the theory is that what ever you focus on is what you will be around, but that means that you would have to be around people's good...and everyone's got a little good in them, so would we somehow be pulling this good out? Or maybe the universe would be pulling this good out? Or maybe It's like a domino effect of goodness? What do you all think?

Comment by Jilly on September 15, 2009 at 9:36pm

Awesome Marcella, Sounds like you are having fun with this 21 day thingy and the universe is delivering with an smooth and steady flow.
Hugs JILLY

Comment by Marcella on September 15, 2009 at 12:49pm

Hi everybody,hows everyone doing.Ive been babysitting my littliest grand daughters and hav'nt been able to do much of anything but taking care of these two little angels is a blessing.There is something I want to share ,my son is going through a divorce and he has 3 children and my daughter in law was not allowing me or the rest of the family to see the children for what reason I dont know but anyway,saturday was one of my granddaughters birthday this is my daughters little girl,and my son shows up at the party with my 3 grandchildren! I was so happy to see them and they were happy too.There was a jump house ther and I got in and jumped with the kids,kids always bring out the kid in me,I had alot of fun.I really believe now that good thoughts kept in the mind bring on more good positive stuff.My 3 grandchildren had'nt been around the family now for ,well it will be 2 years in december..That 21 day thingy,works !

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