Fine Tuning The Secret

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Comment by Kahea on June 2, 2009 at 11:45pm

I'm glad. I'm very happy that we can all be here building each other up and teaching each other. I feel very empowered and focused on continuing to be happy and let go no matter what. I'm glad you are all here to help me with this, and I got another request...to make friends on here that would help me to grow and that I could help. :)

Comment by Kahea on June 2, 2009 at 3:53pm

Well I'll tell you what's interesting Marcella and everyone, I remember when I wanted a better job and I didn't have my love...I visualized them both among other things and I got my love before I got the better job...now here's the kicker...I also visualized a teddy bear...and I didn't get that teddy bear til about a 6 months after I got my love, and I got the better job about a year and a ½ after my love, so explain that order. hahaha Now I'm thinking...Before I got my man I was doing a lot of visualizations per day...now again, I think it depends on if you are close to the thing that you want. I was visualizing being with him when I woke up, and then I let it go. I would visualize calling him before work and then I would let that go. I would visualize coming home and telling him about my day and then let it go, then I would visualize talking with him before bed and then let that go. I would also say good night to him and then let that go. SO I DID A LOT FOR THAT ONE HAHAHA AND A LOT OF LETTING GO :p And he came in about a month and a ½ . Now here is the interesting thing. I had to have a black and white relationship before him (like right before him) in order to know that it was possible for me. And the reason I didn't say interracial is because I have had many interracial relationships just never any black and white (because of many reasons, them just falling through, racist families, men being lame as they can sometimes be, etc.) I think the biggest thing was having to learn that as a black woman it was ok to trust a white man, trusting they wouldn’t get mad and call me a racial slur, trusting that they would view me as an equal, trusting that all of their families weren’t hidden racists, I mean there’s a lot especially in Michigan cause we seem to have a lot of hidden and open racism here. I didn’t care as much when I was a school child, ( I didn’t realize the magnitude) but when I went to NY and studied about my African people and learned from people from around the world, I learned a lot that the European Educational system didn’t teach me. So I had one that was actually successful and it showed me that I could do it no matter what. I even had to deal with an extremely racist family. But I got through it. And I realized that what ever came my way, even if he ended up being bogus, that I could still be strong, and that I was willing to open myself to any race, and just deal with the person. Then we broke up (cause we just weren't right for each other) and RIGHT AFTER like 2 weeks later...I met Matt, and we've been together for over 2 years and we both got that inner tug that we were made for each other. But with the job I never really wanted a job. I've always wanted to be an entrepreneur artist. So I think that had a lot to do with it (the feeling of obligation attached to what I was asking for, along with the failing economy in MI) and that last one I don't think actually mattered that much cause it wasn't really on my mind. I ended up getting the better job through my love when we were able to move to Idaho and live together. Now the teddy bear I think may have been a lack of passion, cause I had so many teddy bears I just wanted another one just to check the secret cause I was just learning about it :P So you know I think it really comes down to passion, true desire, timing and letting go. Like I was willing to wait 10 years for Matt (celibate) if I needed to. It just so happened he lived in MI and we were both asking for each other at the same time. Man talking about this stuff is really helping me put it together. Is it doing the same thing for you all…share some of your experiences with the group! :) Let’s hear them!

Comment by Angelica on June 2, 2009 at 11:45am

Hey! interesting posting! Thanks for create this group Kay ;)
I'm new, and still trying to focus on what i want and this discussion works for me :)
In my experience and thanks to God, I have had all that I want and I had not realized till a short time ago when I found out what is law of attraction. And all that has come with a security that it will happen, that I will have it, without any doubt at all.

Now that I am co-creating my life (happy for that) I have some questions or I'm concern about some things. In the book "Ask and it is given" they say that if we think more about the things we want, we increase the possibility of that thing come to us. But at the same time, I think that thinking all the time what you want, everytime in every moment, you can't let it go and get it flow.
The last week I think I manifested things (little ones) that i didn't have to think too much about them to bring it to my life.

I guess the thing is to feel what you want as if it is already for you. And when you think about it again, you already have that feeling. You can say everyday I WILL GET IT I WILL GET IT but if you are not sure you will get it, don't feel it, you will not get it.

I guess... :)

Comment by Kahea on June 1, 2009 at 9:26pm

Right I agree, the passion. So if the passion is there in the first asking, then there is no need to ask again...but if the passion is not there...then I will ask for something else or I will wait and just reaffirm what I already have put out. :) I'll try that for a while.

Comment by Kahea on June 1, 2009 at 1:50pm

First thing I want to say is Thank you SOOOO much for leaving a comment. I am excited to get some action on this page. :) I agree with you on the point about letting it go. I think that is a really important thing you said "I just know it's gonna happen, then I let go immediately and it comes immediately." I think that is what I have been maybe missing. When things aren't here yet I see them as things that aren't here yet maybe I need to change that perspective and just you know ask and let it be...trouble is I don't know if the universe knows how important it is to me if I don't re-ask. Example. Long time ago I asked to go to a Maroon 5 concert. Asked once, and never thought about it again...to this day, that has not happened. I do not doubt that it can happen and maybe will happen...my thing is I don't know if it hasn't happened because maybe I wasn't that passionate about it, because I didn't re-ask or re-affirm, or if it is just still in the making :) feel me? I'm starting to think that asking once is enough and then affirming whenever you want is what should be done for the rest of the time. Yeah I am going to try that...not re-asking, re-affirming. :)

Comment by Kahea on June 1, 2009 at 9:29am

Hey feel free to post your oppinions or add discussions of your own! :)

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