Fine Tuning The Secret

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Comment by Kahea on June 9, 2009 at 6:24am

I'll tell you something HannaLi that I tell quite a bit of women especially. I used to think that I was fat and I wasn't beautiful to other people. I liked my face but I thought other people didnt. I thought this because of what I was told by other kids (ugly, bigg butt, this and that, family pressure about my body, etc) I didn't really start to change until I went to New York and all the men thought I was the hot sh**. I started to become more spiritually aware and change my views on my looks and my body. I looked back on my pictures this year and I realized there were so many times that my body was wonderfully slim...I just didn't fully enjoy it because of how I allowed my self to be influenced. I decided to stop being so easily influenced and now I love my body. I am working out for me and my health and I feel no pressure and I am feeling good. So sometimes it's just about simply changing your prespective. You may already have A LOT but if you were taught to believe that it is never enough then you will never enjoy what you have and feel the abudance. If you change that though to there is always more than enough...then even if you have very little you will feel abundant and that abundance will grow naturally. I'm still working on it too.

Comment by Kahea on June 8, 2009 at 11:30am

I can't wait for you to elaborate on that A-type personality...maybe you can teach us what types we are...and how we can work with it. :)

Comment by Kahea on June 8, 2009 at 11:29am

This has been my experience HannaLi. In fact Rev Michael Beckwith (look him up if you have a chance) said it best...a positive thought is 1,000 times stronger than a negative one. This is what I learned from the buddhist and the hindu's...everyone is a little bit delusional... hahaha truth is there are so many thoughts sooooooo many...and if you try to supress your yin and only have your yang you will feel a kind of a pressure, tension of sorts...it's not healthy...it's not about supression, it's about release and replacement. First thing is you should take some time and just let your self flow without talking. I stronly recommend this to everyone who hasn't tried it. You may get very emotional...but just sit and just let your mind flow with whatever comes to it and just ignore the thoughts...you know observe them but don't feel like they are you. Do this as often as you can...next thing you do is start focusing on listening to your breath, and this will help to calm the negative thoughts as well...listen to your breath, when you start thinking say in your head shhh or just remind you self to listen as closely as you can to your breath...this helps to cal thoughts so there aren't so many all the time. The replace. AFFIRMATIONS AFFIRMATIONS AFFIRMATIONS! THEY WORK! You talk about all the stuff we were taught by culture...my family as guyanese were taught that if they weren't working all the time they were lazy...STUPID hahaha that is slave mentality. Honestly it is it is a slave mentality that was installed in slaves and it's a slave mentality that was installed in our parents by the industrial age. Truth is you shouldn't have to exchange time for money all the time. Maybe sometimes, maybe even just at the begining...but after a while your money should be almost totally working for you. This is what I am in the process of recieving. You gotta change that thinking...and affirmations, especially at night before bed great time to do them...do a lot like 30 or something things about you most of all because you have to love your self and then things you learned that you want to change...And yeah babe...being happy does let things flow, You will get what you want if you believe in your self and if you believe in what you are asking for and (if you are like me in this belief) if it is in your destiny so to speak (not like God completly controlled destiny, but like you know basic life lessons and purpose that you came for) Rachel and I were talking about the waitress quote on the secret...fact is that hahaha the food may take the same ammount of time for 2 tables to get, but that table that is happy and talking and having a good time won't notice the time flowing by and the table that is antzy and frustrated may feel like they've been waiting an hour when they both have really only been waiting 15 min. You gotta let the waitress get your food right Rachel haha. I love that. Anyone have any experiences with what HannaLi is talking about?

Comment by HanneLi on June 7, 2009 at 12:14pm

Okey:) I`m feeling VERY good these days, so I hope that that will help me get high up in a zone were everything floats easy!! Any exspiriens on that anyone? A good felling in the stomach, like you are in love? Guess I should just trust my intuision to guide me wherever I go. And another question: What about our thougts we have in our bags from our culture/tribe, like "Life is hard", "Money don`t com easy" and stuff like that. Could this keep us from getting what we want, even thoug we think otherwise-good and positive things?

Comment by Ada Bader on June 7, 2009 at 7:09am

The fine tuning thing has been driving me crazy...A-type personality and all. I cant wait to get into my subconscious theories!!

Comment by Ada Bader on June 7, 2009 at 7:08am

Oh Sank You, sank you berry much. :)

Comment by Kahea on June 7, 2009 at 6:56am

I'd like everyone to welcome Ada! :) She's wonderfully complex :) according to her page. I love that.

Comment by Kahea on June 5, 2009 at 1:24pm

Welcome HanneLi ! We're glad and honored to have you in the group!! Feel free to join on in the discussions and post your own. I noticed you had a question posted on your page:

"Just wondering how many subjects/goals people work on in their season? One? Two? Three? I feel like I want everything now, and -it is hard to stay in focus... "-HanneLi

How about we address that...I am going all out! I am asking for everything that I want. Period! Everything I want, places I want to vacation, places I want to live, people I want to meet, cars I would like to drive, financial freedom, career success, everything...clear mind, meditation, learning new things...This is the time...but then I have been doing it for about 2 years now off and on so I have some practice. This is like my time to really GO FOR IT you know Full Force. haha Live it every day and just condence this time and energy into a nice focused 100 day event. Ultimately everything you ask for you have to let go of so why not just ask for new stuff everyday hahaha I started to run out but then I just started getting more specific. What about everyone else?

Comment by Kahea on June 4, 2009 at 7:23pm

"How do I let the waitress just go get my food, when I'm having the doubts? "
HAHAHA OH MY GOSH! I LOVE THAT! That is exactly what it is isn't it...is she gonna bring it? Am I gonna starve? Am I gonna have to ask her again? What if it doesn't get her in time? hahaha Could you imagine? But that's what we do hahaha. That's PERFECT! I have to keep that one in the front of my mind. And you know what, the universe is even more aware and perfect than the waitress and she get's it right most of the time. :P You know what I really like your post about saying it in the past tense. Is that the name of a book "Power of Water"? It sounds interesting, is that the guy in what the bleep do we know that did the water experiment with the snow flakes? I am going to start doing that...when I talk about certain things like my student loan, "oh I paid that in full already" that's what I'm going to be saying. "I deposited $100,000.00 in my bank account yesterday, it felt really good" I can think of a bunch, "I just came back from Japan, the trip was wonderful" hahahaha I didn't really understand what you were saying about the vision board...but I definately think inner satisfaction is more important than speed, it is about feeling good in every moment, so if you feel good while you are making it then that's what's important...I think you are right in that the speed will come with the letting go. In fact there is a Wisdom Teacher on You Tube that basically says the only thing that makes manifestation seem slow or fast is our own concept of time, so if we want things faster we have to change our perspective of time. I think what I am going to do is mix what we have been talking about here...instead of re-asking, re-affirming and speaking in present and past tense. I really like that...that way you can express the passion and importance in a way of hope and trust all the while excluding the doubt and fear. As far as the vision boards I think you might want to try doing it on the computer. I find that it allows for more creative expression. You can find exactly what you want and you don't have to hope you find it in a magazine and you can change it witout the clutter. I also made one on my page and you know what I like to do hahaha listen to Reggaeton while I watch it. You know why :P cause every time you see a movie like in Cali with the nice cars and houses like action movies they are playing that kind of music. It gets me all fired up. Yeah baby! My mom told me "start thinking million dollar, luxury" she said that you don't have to buy it, it's just about know that you can afford it and knowing that there is no limit to what you can have, you belong in any house...she is learning that from Bob Proctor. I am going to post those links later...the 15 miracle minutes and the Bob Proctor Money thing.

Comment by Kahea on June 4, 2009 at 12:09am

“Look in the direction of where you want to be and speak in the direction of where you want to be and never again look back over your shoulder about where you have come from”-Abraham-Hicks. I heard this, this morning and I was like riiiiight. I think we really have to keep reminding ourselves. We Already Have It. I think that is why sometimes it seems like we have this before that, becasue the truth is that we are always going to get something before the other and we will get everything that we truly want and that will be an asset to our experience here on Earth. I think what happens though is that we go oh well I got this, where is that...and what really has to happen is Oh I got this and I have that too... Even when we are expressing it to others (which I think now is going to get easier and easier *wink*) is making sure that when we speak of what is "coming" or what we are "in the process of recieving" that we are filled with truth and knowing...like Angelica talks about on here "the thing is to feel what you want as if it is already for you"...Expressing that knowing anytime we are talking about it...and just hahaha pretending for the good :P It's really just a matter of keeping it up no matter what. I think another good thing too is if it's something you know you weren't really passionate about, then when you are passionate ask again and start from scratch. Like my maroon 5 thing wasn't really passionate, and still to this day wont be...But I tell you what, when I was little I really really really wanted to see 311 before they broke up and I sure did. My mom actually let me go to the concert hahaha and that was before I knew about the LOA. Well let me know what you all think and how everythings been going and please feel FREE to post Discussions! Yes! It doesn't have to be in the frame of the group name, anything that's on your mind. Peace.

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