Fine Tuning The Secret

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Comment by Kahea on September 12, 2009 at 3:28pm

Hey everyone I just want to welcome Brittnay Anne...I just met her on the chat and told her what a wonderful and loving group this is. So let's welcome her with big loving Pink Arms *wink Jilly*

Comment by Jilly on September 12, 2009 at 1:49pm

HI Mar, Hi Kahea, Hi Georgeanne,
Mar...I loved that statement. How exciting to see the universe move and change your way of thinking about your surroundings enough for you to appreciate the weather no matter what...even though you are sweating bullets in 3 digit weather...lol here cuz I am a moderate weather kind-a gal. I just love this can of worms you opened with Kahea.
KAHEA: I loved your story however...yes there is a "HOWEVER" .
I'm in agreement with some of what you said but not in agreement with other parts. Thats what this whole process is all about thought right. I am still pondering all that you have said.
Let me give a HUGH HELLO to Georgeanne first. How are you, havent seen you for a while. Glad to see you are back and would love to hear from you more offten. Let us know whats happening with you.
OK KAHEA back to you Girlfriend. I think when you got frustrated and gave it to the Universe it was the Universe letting you know to be patient. Remember that the Universe will make the circumstances perfect before it will fill your catalog order. While you were giving it up to the Universe...The Universe was already in MOTION. Those RED Roses and CARD were already on there way. I think that you have been waiting for them so long that you just got a bit frustrated. Once you made space for those ROSEs they came and on top of that you got a bonus...a CARD. Let me point out here that sometimes it takes me two days to pick out just the right card. I know other people have the same dificulty. Now lets follow the events at hand. YOU were frustrated so the Universe sent you a RADIO Station to restore you back to the Happy gal that you are to help you focus on the right thought...in this case in your mind were "I am giving this one to the Universe and leting it go at that" and you moved past it. End result. The Universe delivered as PROMISED !!! Remember those Roses were already on the way before you gave it up to the Universe.
The Universe was now creating a circumstance to change your thought and energy so you can arrive at work a calm, HAPPY PERSON.
KAHEA...YOU ARE absolutely RIGHT about doing what feels NATURAL. You will soon discover that all the EXTRA stuff you do will come naturally in time. It will be second nature to be POSITIVE all the time. BEING POSITIVE is what the exercise is all about. The UNIVERSE DOESN'T hear only POS...it hears the NEG also remember. The LAW OF ATTRACTION tells us that when you GIVE it has to be from the HEART and not be a SACRIFICE or you will feel RESENTFULL. This Resentfullness will change your feelings from Happy to Sad. When you said you are DONE...that sounded RESENTFULL.
I have heard that prayer about acceptance and serinity. Thats it ! You need to acept him the way he is and not try to change him. Once you do this...the flow will go in the same direction you are going. You wont be swimming against the current. You went with the flow by putting out the empty VASE. Hence teh Flow kept going in that directionand the VASE is now FULL of ROSES.
AS for that Tornato bid that you talked of...Heck no girlfriend...IM not going to walk into a Tornato. I will sit back and watch or leave that place till the bad weather dies down. Im happy to say that this gal will be running for cover.
I will quote from Dr. Martiniis book..."People regularly and unconsciously project their belief onto other, expecting them to live according to a set of ethisc and morals that reflect their own values instead of the other persons.
How would it be if he tried to change you?
Each one of us can only live by our own inner compass, not anybody else's. There are two things that other people cant't and won't live up to: your values and your fantasies.
Now my opinion: He needs to think you need Roses, and when he realized it...he got them for you. He will soon realize the effect it has on you when he gets them for you. If he likes your reaction...you will probably get tons more. That Radio station was the Universe Keeping Kahea on the right track.
OK CHANGING THE SUBJECT: Yes I too, look around me more often. A doctor told me once. He said " When you go for a walk...look up at the tree tops". I do now and it is wonderful.
I love you Kahea...I wish you were next door....JILLY

Comment by Kahea on September 12, 2009 at 11:23am

You know what Marcella, that's something I started to really think about the other day...These are experiences that we and the God Force are carefully selecting for us to experience. There is a reason for these particular things...I am not a firm believer in every little thing...but I am a firm believer in certain things...like the person who happens to pass when you need to get pulled out of the snow and they are there and ready to help with all the supplies you need. I heard somewhere, I think it was Depack Chopra who said view all people as teachers, even the negative ones...they are probably the greatest teachers of all cause they help to challenge you. This is true and I asked for wisdom and for me I feel wisdom is seeing the bigger picture. I have been praying for this sight...viewing the bigger picture, I have even gone as far as raising my head at the store. There have been so many times that instead of looking a little higher at the store I stayed just above my line of sight, which is not very high because I am only about 5ft...and the thing was only like a foot above my head hahaha and if I would just EXPAND my sight, I would see it. I am working to do that with all aspects of my life. Dealing with people, comprehending what they REALLY MEAN when they say what they say. Getting to the Heart...you know, and saying thank you for this experience. Thank you for this lesson. Sometimes I have to force it out from inbetween my teeth hahaha but I am starting to say it more.
In the car on my way to work the other day, my sweetie and I had a falling out, we had a hard time fully making up because I was at my last couple of straws..you know the straw that broke the camels back hahaha and I decided the next morning when I awoke that I was not going to allow the events of last night to ruin my day, I was going to go in on my first day of work and be as happy as I had been in the previous days and pumped for my first day bartending...and I am not big on christian radio, cause...well I have my reasons hahaha...but I happened to be scanning past one and the minister said something like, is there something in your life that has been bothering you, something you feel like you can't do anything else about and it's weighing you down or something like that....and then the channel changed and I turned right back, and then I heard him say, Give it up to Jesus, and he said something else...and I said YES, that's exactly what I am going to do...I said universe...I'M DONE....I GIVE IT UP TO YOU and I raised my hands to the sky, and I said you are the only one that can get through to him and I have done my visualizations, I have done my positive speaking, I have done my communicating, I have done my grattitude and I have done EVERYTHING I CAN THINK OF to save this relationship. I'M DONE...I GIVE IT UP TO YOU! and I felt soooooooo much better. I was done worrying about it...done trying to figure it out and trying to work on it. I said this is something that my sweetie has to work out on his own... and I went to work and when I got home, there was Roses in the vase with a card, that he wrote it hahaha after 2 years, 2 years...as much as he knows I LOOOOOVE FLOWERS he has never gotten them for me UNTIL yesterday. And you know what...Despite the fact that this has happened, I am not going to go back to the extensive positive visualizations...all the extra more than enough compliments...I am going to be myself, I am going to do what feels natural, I am going to show my appreciation in the ways I always have, and I am going to keep on being a Good Woman cause I know that I am...And I am going to Give It Up to the Universe...I'm going to keep my positive attitude, but sometimes you just gotta let it flow. I was learning that in a dream the other day. Sometimes you just gotta flow with life...just flow in it and if it turns into a tournado don't fight the tournado, become one with it...be a part of that flowing wind...not meaning to fight but just be in the moment and ALLOW it to run it's course and just flow you know what I mean. And that is what I am going to keep doing, because I tell you...not only did I have immediate results hahaha but I am just DONE. I am done working overtime hahaha DONE WORKING OVERTIME to help US...it's time for him to put some hours in and the only one that can make that happen is him and God :P So I'm going to do this:
Grant to us the serenity of mind to accept that which cannot be changed;courage to change that which can be changed, and wisdom to know the one from the other.
I love this prayer...To me I feel like with this situation...I will not and cannot change him...The only thing I can do is aim to be around his higher self, but ultimately some things are going to HAVE TO CHANGE, now he can change himself and the universe can help him to change him self...but I have my standards...I have my lines and now he FULLY knows what those lines are. So from now on it is up to him. I am going to do my part, but he is going to do what he is going to do...and if him and I are ALIGNED then I have nothing to worry about. So that's my story. :)

WELCOME BACK ANGELICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hadn't heard from you in a while. How's the Chello!? I love the grattitude story! :) Keep it up girl !

By the way Does anyone have a good home made recipe for pizza dough and home made bread? Mine always seems to come out doughy on the inside and I can never get my dough to rise :P I intend to get my dough to rise and make my pizza dough a perfect texture and nice and fluffy on the inside :)
PEACE ALL

Comment by Georgeanne Olive on September 12, 2009 at 10:58am

What a pretty view you have Jilly. It would be hard to have less than a 'pink day' if one got to look at that every day.

Comment by Marcella on September 12, 2009 at 10:40am

Good morning to you Jilly! Your having some nice weather,well at least its comfortable,I tell my grandkids this 3 digit weather is pool weather lol,although its not a good idea being in the sun too long.That is a beautiful sunrise,thanks for posting it Its funny that I used to complain about the weather but I am so greatful to experience ANY type of weather now,its all wonderful to me now.I guess God giving me the experience is the best reason of all.Thats something I really never thought about much.

Comment by Jilly on September 12, 2009 at 8:32am

GOOD MORNING ALL, When I woke up this morning (6:23am) this is what I viewed out my bedroom window. It sure looked like the begining of a PINK day to me. Enjoy Hugs JILLY

Comment by Jilly on September 12, 2009 at 8:12am

My Dearest Marcella, News Weather this morning says we will be at 86...oh my gosh...I am more comfy in the high 70's. I saw that you will be up there in the three digits again today. Stay cool and drink lots of water...It is a great day and Im so gratefull ! ...
Hugs JILLY

Comment by Jilly on September 12, 2009 at 1:00am

Thank you Angelica for the most wonderful story. I loved that you shared it with us.
I am so GRATEFUL that you have joined us here.
Peace and Love...JILLY

Comment by Angelica on September 12, 2009 at 12:27am

Thank you Jilly!!! now reading what you wrote about negative and positives energies, believe or not, we were connected looking for that! And I without knowing you were doing that same thing!! I have about 2 weeks looking for that, I posted something yesterday in another group, I will repaste to this one:

...Weeks ago I asked to the universe to give or do something to make me more closer to the laws of the universe, to feel always well, to feel the good energie, to switch "bad" energies in to good ones. First, while I was in the farmacy buying some stuff for my next trip to Merida, a place very far away from Caracas, my city. I was looking the books and then I found something calling "The gratitude diary" it's a notebook where you can write the things you are grateful in that day and in every page it has nice quotes..I decided to buy it and to take it to my trip. Then when I was already on Merida, in a beautiful square, I found a book called "Gratitude" by Louise Hay, I bought that too! I thought It is too much coincidence to find this relationated notebook and book in places where you will never think to find that kind of things there, and i found them in very different places.
I love the book! and I have been writing everyday thing that I grateful for! And I can say it work to switch energies, to live the moment and feel alive!
After somedays, I realized that the word "Gratitude" in both, notebook and book, it was written with the same font of letter and in the same color!...
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I love this idea of the 21 days! Actually I have not stared yet my season 2 because I want to feel posivitve first and to know what I really want! I want positive people, positives energies around me. That's my search right now, and I am finding it! I'm reading books, watching videos, blocking negative people from facebook!! I wish that all social pages were like this one!! :)

It will be interesting if everybody share what do you do this change of habits!
thank you Jilly!

Comment by Jilly on September 12, 2009 at 12:06am

MARCELLA: Chill out girlfriend...put an air conditioner on and sit at the computer and read all this great stuff happening...Its a PINK DAY!

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