Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting

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Comment by Elaine on March 22, 2009 at 5:17pm

That is beautiful, CC. Yes! That sounds like just the kind of love we want from a man. Enjoy. You deserve it.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on March 22, 2009 at 4:12pm

Your post made me think about the things I like about the guy I have been seeing. Everytime I see him, he makes it a point to tell me how beautiful he thinks I look. Our date yesterday was a lot of fun as we played like kids. On my list of "wants" was someone who was not afraid to be silly with me. I love that he is affectionate and likes to hold my hand and kiss me no matter where we are. He's open to trying things that I like and enjoys sharing with me things that he likes. I like that he tells me he enjoys getting to know me and appreciates the time that I spend with him. I like that he thinks about my dog and how she feels about me being away from the house, lol. All in all, he makes me smile and I am still having fun. I've lost count of our dates at this point. He always makes sure I know that he wants to see me again.

Comment by Elaine on March 18, 2009 at 6:04pm

Ok. Now I know for sure that I still have work to do on myself. I just broke it off again with the guy who I had been hoping would come back. He did start asking me out again but I realized that I would not be happy in the kind of relationship he was offering.

My first clue, we were back together for the first beautiful day of the year and his only concern was getting his biker friends together for a ride. Ok, I was not happy at all and I just thought "Do I want this deal?" and immediately "NO!" came to mind. I will continue to pray for him and I do really love him on one level but from this "don't want", I am more clear on my do wants.

I want a man who is excited about having adventures and romance with me. He will be at his best when I am at his side and I will be at my best with him. Of course we will go do things with others but he will want to charm and romance me to build up trust and good chemistry. He will be loyal to his friends but he will value my love and friendship above all others because he will know that I care about his happiness he will trust me and cherish me. He will think I am beautiful and tell me so regularly.

Now THIS guy is coming along very soon. I can feel it.

Comment by Elaine on March 12, 2009 at 10:39am

Thank you for sharing that story, A yar/Asfand.

Comment by A yar on March 10, 2009 at 2:46pm

Sometimes we take the people around us for granted.My grandma talked a lot and i did'nt like it.I would tell her Grandma you are going to live a 100 years and she would say Asfand i will talk a lot with your kids.While i was studying far away from home in Cold .One night i was real stressed out and i had tears in my eyes.I fell asleep and i saw my Grandma she was wearing white robes and garlands.She said Asfand you are stressed out and weeping.Come with me i have come to take you with me.I was going to say ok i am coming with you but something inside me kept me from saying it.I woke up and there was that specific smell of her prespiration all over my body.After some time my parents broke the news that she is no more.Since i did'nt see her ,to me she is still alive.But i miss her ,when no body annoys me with talking a lot.Where is she i don't know Dust to Dust or God knows where.
Just sharing it with you.
Moral of the Story ...................... You all know the moral of this story

Comment by Elaine on March 4, 2009 at 1:07am

That is lovely, CreativeConqueror. Please keep us posted.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on March 2, 2009 at 8:23pm

Wow, he wants our dogs to meet. :)

Comment by CreativeConqueror on March 1, 2009 at 10:06pm

With this one particular guy, I've been following the downstream. Yesterday was our fourth date, and I had such a great time. On my list of an ideal mate, it included that he planned creative dates. Well, when my original idea ended quickly, the night was still early. I didn't have any suggestions for what to do next, but I chuckled when he proceeded to refer to a list of date ideas he had on his phone :) He's cute.

Comment by Elaine on February 14, 2009 at 4:42pm

Let's all keep our heads up. It is always darkest before the dawn.

Comment by Lauren on February 13, 2009 at 7:48am

I felt like a hit a huge wall last night when things went really wrong with a guy. I realised this morning that i just need to take a new direction and can't keep doing the same things over and over again expecting to get a different result. I just need to let the good flow to me :D !

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