Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting

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Comment by Elaine on May 28, 2009 at 2:34pm

That is beautiful CC. That is a worthy dream to raise your children in a big happy family like that. I am excited to read about what develops next.

My bf and I are doing really well too. We are so happy to be together again it is crazy. I kept reassuring myself that although things didn't look good, the Universe has a wonderful surprise for me hidden behind the veil of "reality". I was right.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on May 28, 2009 at 11:21am

Here is a picture of my boyfriend and mine's art project when we went to the Please Touch Museum this week....

Comment by CreativeConqueror on May 27, 2009 at 9:06am

I met some of my boyfriend's family this weekend. I had a great time and really enjoyed being around them. It was great to see his parents with their grandchildren. The event was his dad's birthday and I had the chance to meet 4 generations of their family at once as his stepmom's mom was there too. What a great first meeting. I am looking forward to meeting his mom, stepdad and two other brothers.

In my marriage, I want to be close to my in laws. I want there to be times where even both our families vacation together. I look forward to my children being able to spend time with active grandparents who enjoy being grandparents. I look forward to spending holidays and summer outtings with my immediate and extended families.

Comment by Elaine on May 21, 2009 at 3:22pm

Hi Creative Conqueror. I can totally relate to how you are feeling and like you I am appreciating now. I know that I am very fortunate to have someone who loves me so much exactly as I am.

Because of some of the things that have happened, I am now 20 pounds above the weight that I was when I dated my bf. I know he likes my body fit and toned, but while he is my number one supporter in my fitness goals, he still tells me all the time that he also loves my more voluptuous body.

I know I will slim down fast but I love being loved as I am.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on May 16, 2009 at 2:17pm

Good afternoon Cocreators,

I just want to write down what I am feeling because I enjoy this feeling. I love love love waking up to a partner who is affectionate with me in spite of morning breath. I appreciate having a partner that tells me he thinks I am beautiful, sexy, smart and that he appreciates me and the things I do. I enjoy having a partner that likes to cuddle after great sex. I enjoy having fun getting to know your partner and learning how to love them. I am appreciating NOW.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on May 14, 2009 at 8:19pm

Elaine,

That is truly awesome news. What a testament to as you said accepting the contrast and continuing to have fun. I wish you much continued success in your renewed relationship.

Comment by Elaine on May 13, 2009 at 4:18pm

Hi CC.

Hi everyone. I am delighted to say that my soul mate has returned to my life.

I broke up with my bf of five years last summer. Even though I loved him, things weren't working and I felt helpless to do anything to make it work. Well, he called me a few weeks ago announcing that he been badly addicted to pain killers but had quit and is a new man. I was thrilled to hear the difference in him and to learn that he had transformed his life but I was not going through some problems that I never thought he would have accepted. Many of you will know about what I am talking about from past discussions...I just never thought he would consider making it work but he did. He wasn't happy about the circumstances but said he loved me and would stand by me no matter what.

Well, to make a long story short, he proved to me what kind of man he is now. He came back into my life in my darkest hour and really showed me that he has my back thick and thin. I am now really grateful about the way everything has worked out and that I have had the chance to see him for the great man that he is.

So, how is this for a turnaround? We are looking for a house together, talking about getting married soon, and talking about trying to have a baby together as soon as the doctor says it is ok. I am overjoyed to have him back!

Comment by CreativeConqueror on April 22, 2009 at 12:13pm

I still have some work to do Elaine. Now I have to work on allowing things to grow on their own.

Comment by Elaine on April 21, 2009 at 12:18pm

That is wonderful CC. I am so happy that things have manifested for you just the way you wanted.

Boy, wow, is mine a different story! But I am embracing mine as well. Keep having lots of fun.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on April 21, 2009 at 7:19am

Well cocreators, I've been having so much fun that I almost forgot to come back and tell you what is new with me. Since the last time I posted, I'd say that I've grown a lot closer to the gentleman I mentioned previously. We are now in an exclusive committed relationship, and I am still having just as much, if not more fun than when I posted last.

There are only 5 days left in my season and the relationship I sought has manifested. Just as I had wanted, it was him who brought up the need for 'boyfriend/girlfriend' titles. We talk often about our values, beliefs, how we want to raise our families, and the kind of partner and citizens we want to be. He has goals and is currently working towards them. There are also ways in which we differ that I appreciate. He is MUCH neater than I. We share a lot of the same interests.

One of the great things I did when we first started dating is keeping a list of the things I liked about him. I would write my LOA study buddy after our dates, reveling in the good feelings. I am glad to have those things to review now. They still make me feel good, and that's a good sign.

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