Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting

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Comment by CreativeConqueror on June 26, 2009 at 5:33pm

I've decided instead to repeat this thought:

I deserve love!
I deserve love!
I deserve love!
I deserve love!
I deserve love!
I deserve love!
I deserve love!

Comment by CreativeConqueror on June 22, 2009 at 11:52am

Hello Co Creators:

Do you ever feel as if you have a broken record in your head repeating the same self sabotaging thoughts you've had before?

Comment by Lauren on June 11, 2009 at 1:35pm

Hey Carol

Yea i think your probably right. I was talking to a friend about it and he reackons that i should do the same thing.

So next guy please! :P

Thanks for the advice

Lauren xoxo

Comment by Carol on June 11, 2009 at 1:22pm

Hey Lauren

I haven't read the book some am not commenting from any place related to it ( which might bug some people that I'm replying to you but anyway... )

My girlfriends and I work on the theory that if a man thinks that you're the one for him, you won't ever have to question it - he'll make sure you know... Your guy isn't doing that... Be strong and leave the space open for someone who truly loves you - undoubtedly - to come in.

Good luck!!!
Carol

Comment by Lauren on June 11, 2009 at 4:11am

Hey Girlies

I met i guy and we where having a great time. However he was honest and said that he didn't want a serious relationship because he had been with someone else for 3yrs. We kept dating and i was considering ending things because we clearly weren't on the same page in terms of what we wanted from each other. But then he started to say things to make me think that he might want something serious.

We don't see each other often due to distance and his work. Turns got we where both going to the same place and he said he would give me a lift there. He ended up buying me and early birthday present and taking me to dinner.

3days later and i still never heard anything. I was disappointed but accepted that it was over. A week later (yesterday) i get a message from him to wish me a happy birthday. This has confused me now. I think that if he doesn't want to see me anymore i would perfer he doesn't contact me at all because it makes it too hard to get over him and then of course i start reading into things to much thinking, if he doesn't like me then why did he contact me. Maybe because thats what i want to think.

My question is should i contact him or should i just leave things alone and see what happens? Sorry for going off on a bit of a rant lol. It has been bothering me for over a week now and would really love to get some advice.

Thanks everyone xoxoxo

Comment by Elaine on June 9, 2009 at 11:28pm

Thank you for the reminder, Creative Conquer. That is just what I will do. My man, S has many wonderful qualities that I should always remember, no matter what.

He is tall and handsome. He is very affectionate. He remains youthful and almost childlike. He loves my kids. And, he showed himself to be a true friend the night I was in the hospital.

He is a great guy, no matter what.

Thank you CC and I am sending prayer for the best of everything for you. And all of you too.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on June 9, 2009 at 4:56am

Elaine,

I was just thinking on this subject last night. I wondered how do you use the law of attraction on your current relationship, without feeling like I am trying to change a person. The basic gist I got is that we get what we focus on. For example, your statement that I am a lot smarter than him, will continue to garner feelings of him not understanding you. However, thoughts about how you appreciate how intuitive/or whatever he is, would increase that aspect of the relationship. If we focus on the things we dont like about our mate, we will get more of that. However, if we focus on the things we do like in our mate and visualize the relationship that we DO want the outcome can be more fulfilling.
I dont know if my current boyfriend will be my husband. I am not even sure if I am hope so because I know that we would have some challenges due to race alone. But Im pretty sure all the challenges would be worth it.

When D and I first started dating,I used to journal after almost every date because I was having such a great time. I also kept a list of why I liked him which quickly grew to about 30 items. When I am feeling particularly frustrated with the differences in the way we communicate, his ability to only see the glass as having water in it as opposed to overflowing, etc, I return to my list of why I liked him and compare it to my list of ideal traits in a mate.

Comment by Elaine on June 9, 2009 at 1:00am

Thank you both. Right now there is a little bit of trouble in paradise and I am just hoping that I didn't speak too soon. I love him and know that he loves me but the day to day can be difficult because sometimes we don't communicate well. Me having PMS hasn't helped either.

Also, I am a lot smarter than him so sometimes I don't think he even understands what I am talking about. Thankfully, we will be spending a few days apart so I will have a chance to focus on myself and what I want again. I will pray about the situation.

Comment by violeta on June 7, 2009 at 1:54pm

@ Elaine.... i am so happy for you, that you reached what you wanted and what you focused on ;-)
@ Creative Conqueror... i am also glad for you!!!

I want to post here, that i also will find my soulmate, who is waiting for me.... i allow that it will come in my life ;-) !!!
Namaste, violeta....

Comment by PJ on May 28, 2009 at 4:43pm

I'm glad things are working out for both of you. I can only wish my positivity resulted in great relationship outcomes for me but nothing I've tried has worked and after my last experience with my guy, I'm pretty sure I can't get to that positive space again.

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