Excuse Me, Your Soul Mate Is Waiting

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Comment by Elaine on October 22, 2008 at 6:28pm

Btw, great posts in our discussion CreativeConqueror.

Comment by Elaine on October 22, 2008 at 6:27pm

Michelle, I'm sorry about your situation but want to compliment you on your courage to say your truth. I do know from personal experience that too much stress suppresses libido and I think that is even more true for men. Maybe there is a way to share with him some LOA stuff so that he can start to have a more joyous life experience. More fun and happiness will follow for both of you whether you stay together or not.

Comment by CreativeConqueror on October 22, 2008 at 2:12pm

If you are both willing to work on it, the way your relationship can be turned around is limitless (IF that is what you BOTH want). He's at least communicating with you regarding this change in behavior. I believe him when he says it's not about you, but rather something internal in him. Explore 'fixing' that together. The fact that you are open to working on it and talking about it is excellent. That alone is strides ahead of many relationships that lack intimacy and open communication. Why not try couples therapy or a sex therapist?

Comment by Michelle on October 22, 2008 at 12:49pm

What do you do if you yearn for your soulmate and are married to someone who is not...or at least I don't think...is my soulmate? There are positive aspects of our relationship but there are alot of problems too. No passion, romance, he isn't even interested in sex anymore (we just had our 2nd anniversary) but have been together for almost 7 years. He says he wants to try and make things work, that he loves me, and that the disinterest in sex doesn't have anything to do with me, just loss of interest in general. He has had a big increase in job stress lately so this could be part of it. I just don't know whether to keep trying or leave to be free to find my soulmate....or is it possible that your current partner can become your soulmate if they aren't already? I haven't read the book.....just heard about it for the first time yesterday, but would appreciate any insight! Thanks so much!

Comment by Elaine on October 22, 2008 at 8:26am

Hi Cindy. Try asking yourself instead "Why am I so special that the universe is holding this great surprise for me?"

Comment by Elaine on October 22, 2008 at 8:21am

I am so happy to see all the participation in this group. Nicolas, developing and using our talents really does sound like a great idea- both for ourselves and for attracting a soul mate...

I'll never forget being at a Karaoke bar with a soul mate when he stood up, took the microphone, and belted out the most beautiful rendition of "Margarita" (my middle name) for me. I can still remember that amazing feeling of bliss! Yes, talent is attractive.

Comment by Cindy on October 21, 2008 at 3:51pm

Hi everyone,

Lately many friends of mine have started going out with someone, getting in serious relationships or getting married (and I'm talking about friends who were single for a long time). I have to say it's quite confronting for me, but the first thing I think when I hear this is "I also deserve a relationship with a soul mate" (while my first thought used to be "Why not me?)

It's sometimes very difficult to be patient though. I can say that for the first time in my life I feel really love myself, I love my (freelance) work and am happy that I can use my talents & passion to give something to others, I'm healthy, try lots of new things & enjoy...but I miss sharing my life with a soul partner. I can't really figure out at the moment why I'm still single...maybe I have gotten so used to being on my own (or being in relationships that did not work out) that's it's still very difficult for me to imagine actually being in a relationship with a soul mate (experiencing it instead of thinking about it or wishing it).

Comment by Nicolas on October 21, 2008 at 2:03pm

Thank you for the invitation Elaine~*~

I hope to share here some of the wonderful tips to find your soulmates...
my first tip: they love talents! Use yours as much as possible.

Nicolás Nóbile
www.alquimia9.com

Comment by joanna on October 21, 2008 at 9:34am

* How incredibly cool is it that I will soon be 100% free and available for a great love? It is stupendous.

Yay! Hold onto that and let the rest go!

Comment by Elaine on October 21, 2008 at 7:48am

I make so many typos on this comment wall!

I have a few things to do this morning but very soon I am going to post another discussion about chapters 3, 4, 5, and 6. Just shifting my focus back to my intention to be in a soul mate relationship is making me feel a buzz from within. How incredibly cool is it that I will soon be 100% free and available for a great love? It is stupendous.

It is going to be so nice to fall in love!

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