Exercises from Chapter 1 and 2: What have been your past "cop-out phrases"?, List Don't Want, List Do Wants

[Elaine]

Here goes.

Cop out phrases... hmm, I've been doing this LOA thing for a while now, I don't know if I am really allowing myself to cop out as much but now... I think I will skip this exercise.

Don't Want

I don't want negative drama in my relationship.
I don't want men who judge or criticize me for any reason.
I don't want unreliable men.
I don't want a dishonest man.
I don't want a boring man.
I don't want a man with troublesome friends and family.
I don't want men with financial or legal troubles.
I don't want men who use drugs.
I don't want a man who is cold or indifferent to me.
I don't want an effeminate or weak man.

Do want:

I want and exciting and energizing relationship that is also stable and safe. I want to feel calm and peaceful.

I want a man who accepts and loves me for who I am, is compassionate to me for errors I have made or continue to make, and who has compassion and empathy for women in general.

I want a man who has his act together and is able to be where he says he will be and call when he says he will call. I want someone who will make whatever extra effort necessary to follow through on things he has planned.

I want a man who communicates kindly, but honestly. I want him to have an honest relationship with others in his life and with me.

I want a man who enjoys conversation, travel, and has hobbies and interests. I want someone who can introduce me to a few enjoyable new activities.

I want a man who has supportive, loving, open, friendly, people in his life. I want a man whose family and friends like me, approve of our relationship, and support us in being together.

I want a man who keeps his affairs in order. I want a man with financial stability and a good track record for being a productive member of society. I want a man who cares about being responsible and accountable because he cares about others.

I want a man who enjoys social situations where alcohol is served but who doesn't become intoxicated. I want a man who always stays clear of hard drugs.

I want a man who is crazy about me. I want a man who is affectionate, loving, great in bed, I want a man who can't get enough of me.

I want a man who is strong, masculine, and competent in man things.

[CreativeConqueror]

I also used to say that no one will want me because I am crazy. But I love my mind and I will find a perfect mate that needs a little crazy in their lives.

[CreativeConqueror]

I am trying to reenergize:

don't want someone who is ambiguous about their feelings about me.
I don't want someone who does not ask me out on dates.
I don't want someone who is inconsiderate.
I don't want an uncommitted, casual sexual relationship.
I don't want a man who is mentally, physically, emotionally or financially abusive.
I don't want a partner who has substance abuse issues.
I don't want a partner who does not want to be married.
I don't want a partner who does not call when he says he will.

I do want a partner who actively listens to me
I do want a partner that loves the Lord
I do want a partner that is intriguing, intelligent, considerate, confident, assertive and attractive to me
I do want a partner that is creative and plans actual dates for us
I do want a partner who is family oriented but may not have his own family yet
I do want a partner that lights up when he sees me!
I do want a partner that has a great sense of humor and is not afraid to be silly with me.
I do want a partner who shares some of my interest and is willing to travel and try new things with me.
I do want a partner that enjoys trying new things with me.

[violeta]

Hello co-creators....

I want find my man how is my soulmate.
I want a partner who loves me, like I do and is crazy about me, so I do.
I do want a open, friendly, masculine and strong man who is great in bed with brown eyes and hair.
I want a man how has good friends and loves his family and all of them are nice.
I want a man how is social, responsible and how care about others and also animals.
I want a man how is loving, a little bite crazy, creative, a happy person and loves to travel.
I want a man you has hobbies and interests and enjoys conversation to different people.
I will feel with him special, we can laugh together a lot and are happy.
I want a man that I find physically attractive and we will have amazing sex.
I want a soulmate how respects me, is polite, adorable and protect me.

[violeta]

I allow that my soulmate comes in my life...... and I thank the universe for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!