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[ChrisM]

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[Isobel]

You have done SO well on the paperwork thing! That's one of my vaguer objectives, to get organised and stay that way - so I can imagine how good it must feel to have all that done :)

As for the job ..... collect up all those glowing reports and immerse yourself in them! Print them out and stick them up everywhere so you see them every day.

Then remind yourself that you are not here to get someone else's approval, and that the only person who is "judging" you is you! And the fact that you feel bad shows that your Inner Being, Source, is not seeing you as a "an average employee". Source sees you as a glorious, glowing success in everything you do. You're just not up to speed yet with the expanded version of yourself.

So .. BOPA (write a Book of Positive Aspects of) yourself. Take every occasion to praise yourself. Note down every single thing, at work and elsewhere, that shows what an amazing being you are. Not what other people say about you, but what you say about you! Because this "average" feedback is only a reflection of how you're feeling about yourself and you can change that! The outside always reflects what's on the inside :)

Isobel

[ChrisM]

Thank you so much for your reply. It's great advice!
yes, I am not here to get other's approval!
Chris

[ChrisM]

Isobel, this was such wonderful advice about collecting positive feedback from the past, and having it to affirm, and remember my talents, and positive attributes. It really helped to shift my thinking. Here are some examples of feedback and comments received:

1. "I am impressed with your insight, and clarity of the issues", and "your willingness to take a risk"
2. "you are a natural leader, by virtue of your insight, temperament, intelligence, personality".
3. 'you are the key reason why things get accomplished in meetings."
4. "I commend you on your creative and sensitive work with difficult populations'.
5. "Your capacity to engage and meet the clients where they are, is wondeful to see"
6. "I want my studio, FUll Circle to be a home for your good work".
7. "You are a creative, competent therapist who approaches her work with remarkable breadth".
8. "Chris teaches all her colleagues through her example, her commitment radiantly shines through her, encouraging others to be their best selves".
9. "You are an astute observer of content and symbolic expressions".
10. "You have the ability to join with others in sometimes minutely subtle and sometimes deeply profound ways working to have meet move toward health and wholeness".
11. "Chris's ability to asess, communicate, and work in the non-verbal plane with clients enhances and enriches the therapeutic relationship".
12. "Her workshops are enthusiastically received".
13. "She is a generous and supportive colleague".
14. "She has brought our department together in ways that support us in the difficult work we do."
15. Chris is "bright and articulate, reliable, and hardworking. She is gifted in relationships and her participation in meetings and groups help them and everyone involved to function better".
16. "I am impressed with Chris's clinical knowledge and skills."
17. "Chris can describe her work with a beautiful balance between intellectual sophistication and genuine empathy and concern".
18. "Chris is responsible, trustworthy, and forthright in her work and in her life".
19. "I have learned a lot from Chris, a woman with dry wit, and deep compassion".
20. "Chris's clinical skill and her personal style is worthy of the highest distinction".
21. "She clearly, conveys to professionals outside the field, a complex complicated system of analyzing and assessing movement".
22. "chris is a highly intelligent and sensitive therapist with a kind and purposeful style".
23. "She appreciates the intricacies of group dynamics".
24. "I''ve heard nothing but positive comments from your workshop, and was informed that it was very helpful and informative to all the participants".
25. "All of your evaluations were positive. It was so generous of you to share your skills and time with us." "Thank you for helping us grow as professionals".
26. "Participants raved about your presentation. Without you, we could not have had such a successful and inspiring event".

Today I choose to reflect on the 99.9% positive feedback that I've received over the years.

[Isobel]

"Today I choose to reflect on the 99.9% positive feedback that I've received over the years."

.. and believe and KNOW that this is how Source sees me ALL OF THE TIME!

What an awesome person you are, Chris!

Love
Isobel

[HappierThanGod]

Whatever you are wanting is going to come. I suggest you describe in writing the best case scenario for the job that you would be happy about. Add a photo of this new work in your vision board. Picture it in your mind. Imagine and believe that you are always moving towards a higher level of position job wise. Let go of the things that you were not happy about. The past is not who you are "now".

[ChrisM]

Thanks so much , Lorii. Great advice! today I will do some writing about the best case scenario for the best job for me.
Have a wonderful day.
Chris