Still looking for that perfect someone? Read this.

[Amir]

So Here's the Highway to Manifesting a Healthy Relationship

It seems that when it comes to applying the Attractions Law, one of the hardest, long-lasting challenges it manifesting our soulmates, ideal boyfriend or girlfriend, whichever term you wish to use. Okay, so we've been there, done that, this that the other thing and have had negative experiences with hurtful people we've dated and been with. I will admit, I've had mine. I've fallen in love with women who... were already involved with another guy, had something in them that wasn't right, had something missing, or just didn't like me back. That happens to EVERYONE! And at the end of the day, the God-honest, uncontradicting truth is... there's always someone perfect for someone, and 99% of the time, the people we fall in love with aren't right for us.

I mean- why try to impress that girl at college or school when she doesn't even like you back in the first place, when there is a better person out there. There are people that we like and don't like us back, so move on. There are even people that like us but WE don't like THEM back, so THEY will have to move on.

If you're brand new to this and want to start (and this is for anybody by the way) here's what I'd like you to do.

Do this if you haven't done so already. Take a pen and piece of paper, right? At the top of the paper, write in big letter at the top "MY PERFECT GIRLFRIEND". Ladies, you can obviously replace the "girlfriend" with the word "boyfriend". The list can also be done on Microsoft Word if you wish. Then under that, I now want you to write out ALLLLLL the qualities you would want in your ideal partner, as if a genie wanted you to make a wish as you asked for a mate and he asked you what kind of partner you want. LIST EVERYTHING! BE SPECIFIC! Go ahead! Be picky! AND be honest with yourself! If you want a woman with big breasts, please! Put that!

Just go crazy with this as if you had a magic wand and had no constraints with this whatsoever. Your list can be longer than the Sears Tower for all it matters. Let me say this, however, we all want a person who's sexy and looks good, nice hair, this that the other, and trust me! That is perfectly fine! BUT! Don't just focus on a person's looks. At the same time we can come across a person who looks good, they can also treat us like dirt, so with that I beg you to please focus on their type of behavior as well, how they treat you, how nice they are to you, etc. etc. Also, one word of waning. Don't worry about the Zodiac sign or Animal sign. You can say you two are perfectly compatible but don't just assume "Oh I'm a Virgo so the best match for me is a Cappricorn!" Because at the same time Virgos are most compatible for Cappricorns, you just never know if you'd get along with a Cancer or Taurus but I will cover that later.

So when you have your finished list... that's longer than the Sears Tower lol... What I want you to do now is grab a picture of someone who looks fairly close to your ideal partner. This is the optional part but I would HIGHLY recommend this. It can be of your ex or someone you've crushed on or it could be of someone you think is hot. Then attach the picture below the list or anywhere else. If for some reason you can't find a picture, DRAW a picture. Again, you don't nessasarily have to do this but it's highly recommended that you do.

Now we're going to visualize being with this person. Imagine them, what they'd look like, going to the movies, being with them, having a sweet conversations with them, whatever it is, visualize it. Add passion and power, do whatever it takes to get your emotions at the same vibe with what you want. Now after that, let it go, and let the Universe do the rest. By the way, this technique works for almost anything and no, not just to manifest a partner, to manifest ANYTHING, a home, a job, more money, anything else we want.

As it sounds rather odd that this is all coming from an 18-year-old, single male, proud virgin, and seeker of mine (mate), I know how it's done! I'm one step closer to mastering Attraction's Law! Also, ask any person who manifested their mate via the Attraction's Law. They will tell you the EXACT same thing I'm telling you here. Well, not word-for-word lol but it is the same thing and will have you thinking "Oh yeah! Amir posted that on his blog."

Anyway, as we just established, we are letting the Universe/God do the work but we're not done just yet! AND THIS... is where people tend to have the most trouble AND THIS I want desperate people to read especially. YOU need to work on YOU! Yes, I know. You're probably tired of this advice as I too became sick of this advice, and I've ranted about how bad I wanted a mate and posted in other forums how I felt but I've got replies telling me the same I'm about to tell you now, but look. How bad do you want this person? Think about it. Really. If you don't love and value yourself, then how could anybody else?

So those of you suffering difficulty trying to manifesting your ideal partner, I want you read this portion of this blog very carefully. Ask yourself these questions.

1. Does my personality match that of who I want to attract?
--> Since we're talking attracting a human being via the Attraction's Law, which says like attracts like, our actions somehow have to match the kind of person we want. We can't be always angry, pissy, and hurtful and seek out loving, kind, and generous. It doesn't work like that. If you want pretty nice and kind, we have to BE pretty nice and kind.

2. Am I aligned with what I want?
--> You must not be if you're dwelling upon your mate's absence instead of their presence. Remember, what you think and feel about, you bring about.

3. Foremost of all, Do I love and value myself?
--> Like I said, If YOU don't love yourself then why should anyone else? Remember, like attracts like. When a person doesn't like themself, their feelings about themselves are being sent out to the Universe and then what it does is it sends that person other people that don't like them. See what I'm getting at?

Another thing, DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT settle for less than, please. Don't be so desperate, you'll take just anybody just because. Just look at the poor realtionship and the divorce rates. That's because the innocent person fails to value themselves so they settle for less. Don't. That's my lecture for now.


Affirmations to practice-

I am enjoying a healthy, long lasting relationship with my ideal partner and she/he fits everything on my "Perfect Girlfriend/Boyfriend" list!

Knowing that I will meet my ideal partner very soon, I am now detatching myself from this vision.

I am passionately sitting in a car, holding hands with my very attractive Girlfriend/Boyfriend!

Feel free to reply with any affirmations you'd like to add or find inspring. Hoped this post helped!

[Angelica]

I Love this blog!! Thank you very much Amir!
I really have to think what I want, because maybe I'm not prepared to meet the right one...although sometimes I think I met him already, but I don't know if it's the fondness that I have to him that make me feel that, sometimes I'm very confussed.
Blessings!

Ps. I was sure many people would reply at this blog ;)