Psychic and Medium readings

[Teejay]

I had a phone reading about 4 months ago now and I tried my hardest not give away 'free' information on the call so she didn't have the benefit of just cold reading me and my life...etc.

Now I asked about work/love and she said nothing will change this year, and I will get into a new job in December, and I asked about love/relationships, and she said February will be the time I will meet someone that will be love. She also said it makes her wonder whether I will meet this 'love' through work. It did quite make me upset that nothing will change this year and the thought of not be able to do anything to make a difference..etc. But after a few days I decided not to believe what she said, because it goes against all what I have learned about creating your own reality..etc. Now since this call I have been so hopeful, so positive, meditating everyday and taking more action then normal on my part to give me more chance of getting a new job and to meet someone new for relationship.

But now as it is nearly coming to the end of the year, it has started to make me think about what she said, and if what she was saying is actually true! Because everything seems like its going to happen next year, she said nothing will change this year and next year will the year that things happen..etc. At the moment it does seem that everything that I try is just not happening, even things that should be easy!! Because I wanted to prove what she said was wrong, so I took what she said as wrong and I wanted to prove to my self that things will change this year!

But to be truthful nothing has!, now of course I wont fully believe what she said unless these things actual happen in December and February.... and if they do them yeah I will believe.

I just want your thoughts on these Psychic and Mediums readings and things they say are true and what not?


Thank you!

[Jason]

Here's what I believe:

I believe, just my opinion, that anything that has to do with predicting the future (fortune tellers and astrology) will come true if you believe and expect it will come true. If you think it won't come true, then it won't. Why? The law of attraction comes into play. You get what you think about, imagine, feel, and expect. So if a "psychic" on some telephone line tells you something and you expect the psychic to be accurate and you expect the predictions to be accurate, then it probably will be accurate. But it's not them or the future (that hasn't happened yet) that makes the prediction come to pass, it's you who does. By allowing it.

Let me tell you about an experiment I once did 5 years ago. I created horoscopes and gave them to some of my acquaintances/friends at work. How did I create the horoscopes? I made up the stuff off the top of my head! No scientific method involved whatsoever! But I handed them their horoscopes and said,"I've studied this stuff extensively for the past 11 years. Since age 14." I never studied astrology a day in my life. They believed me though. Anyway, turns out, I gave it to 4 people, and the predictions they all got came true for them! (Two of them got unexpected money like the horoscope said, one of them found a new lover like it said, and the other one ran into somebody they haven't seen in a long time like the horoscope said.

Two of them never said anything to me but two of them said,"Everyone's horoscope came true! You're accurate." I told them how I created the horoscopes. They were even more impressed to learn that I wasn't into astrology and made the stuff up completely. "Major coincidence" one of them told me. I never discussed this with them but the reason why the predictions came true was because they believed in it and expected it to come true. My whole life I'd read a horoscope in the paper and it would never come true for me. Because I didn't believe in them.

Fung Shui I think the same thing. I had a Fung Shui book when I was a teen that said if your front door has a lot of glass or a big window on it, then prosperity will leak from your home! Well, we had a front door just like that! Soon after I read that my parents were struggling with money. I thought, "Oh, sh*t! We need a new door! I wish I didn't read that." But somehow I decided not to believe in what the book said. I had no knowledge of new age or LOA at the time but I said,"No! This door means we will all have more money than usual!" A few months later my family had all this extra dough and we bought a bunch of merchandise. New TV, a huge guitar amp, even a new refrigerator and a new car.

Then soon after that I started practicing Magick and spells for fun because my friends were. It was mainly for fun I guess but I allowed myself to believe in it. My friends didn't stick with it for long. They said,"This is crap!" I did a spell to attract a girlfriend, I did. I did spells to obtain money and I did. Not all of my spells worked but a lot of them did. Usually "minor" stuff. I'd tell my friends what I accomplished with it and they said,"Whatever! It wasn't the spell that did it." They were half right. It wasn't the spell, it's what I expected to come about is what made stuff happen. But in one of the Magick books I read said something like,"You can obtain a lot of things but don't expect to become a millionaire." Looking back now that was a crappy message! It influenced me too. I was afraid to do spells to become rich because I thought it wouldn't work. Eventually I kind of fell out of practicing spells. I got lazy.


I did meet a guy once who believed in Satan! He loved Satan! Satan gave him all these neat things! I'm sure because he believed it and expected that Satan was his provider. then I knew a girl who thought Satan was torturing her and making bad things happen to her. the result? She had bad luck. Notice how one person is "lucky" from Satan and the other one suffers misfortune from the same entity? It has to do with their own beliefs and expectations.

I wonder what would happen if I were to allow myself to believe that Cap'n Crunch exists and will give me what I ask for if I eat a bowl of his cereal every morning for a month while meditating upon what I want during breakfast time? Or if I turn on the TV and believe the first thing I hear will predict my future?

I believe in intuition though. "There is something unsettling about that person walking down the street." You don't listen to your gut and then he robs you. Or "for some reason I should do this, don't know why" and then you find the money you've been looking for. I had strong intuition in the past about girls wanting to leave me or seeing some other guy without telling me. Come to find out those flashes of intuition came to me while it was happening. Tarot cards could be used for intuition.

But I don't believe in predicting what hasn't happened will happen like fortune telling. The only predictions I believe are what your thoughts, images, beliefs, and expectations you have in your head has to say. That's what predicts your future. But those can be changed before the future comes about.

This is all just my opinion.

[Jenna Costo]

well. this comment is for everybody , not just Jason. I will say this. Each one of us is powerful. We have incredible power. These days every day I say this affirmation - I am powerful . & it reminds me of my power. Anyway, also Jilly is right, we need to be one with the source through meditation or quiet contemplation. Using a psychic is good only when you ask about some one else's action- as in what will they do? If at all. 2 things here. 1st, asking what will i do is the stooooopidest thing you can do. Go watch a movie if you're bored. dont waste your money to get an answer to that question. Plus the movie will cost much less. What you will do, is what YOU WILL DO, BASED ON WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT & and based what attracts you. Just go with the flow. If you dont have a romantic partner, so what? You think there is nothing else in this world to enjoy? 2nd, you cant control others. so why even think about other people's actions. Focus on your own goal and your own path. 1 single person is not critical for your goal to be manifest. If your current boyfriend is upsetting you, why focus on him? Focus on your own love life. That can be improved without him. You get my point?

But lastly, I am cuurious about spell casting though. I do use crystals and I love them. Intent is a must but these can help further. Thats my understanding. Please tell me more about spells for money & love. Im reallly curious about what worked for you.thanks & good luck with everything. & btw, Teejay dont wait till February please...........just go out there & live your life. DOnt believe in anyone but yourself. Thats my advice to you.

[createfate]

I think a simple thought: Because you took in what she said it played out as resistance/fear/doubt when you tried to manifest and actually influenced what DID happen...It is my belief that you are way more powerful than any 'outside" psychic.

[Jilly]

I have said it before and I will say it again. These things seperate you from the Source. You and the Source/God/Universe have a connection. When you do these things they upset the flow. These things are outside of you. You need to stay focused on the inside. You said it not me. You are now "thinking of what she said" quote unquote. You need to think for yourself and think about what you want to happen in your life. You and the Source are one. What you think is what you bring about for you. You need calmness and stillness to manifest. Sounds like this is rocking your boat. I agree with Jason to a degree...going to these methods is like playing russian roulete. You have to take the good with the bad. When I manifest into my life I only focus on the good. Blessings JILLY

[Teejay]

I understand what your saying, I now have more clarity, I am re-reading ask and it is given to refresh my memory! :)
Thank you for the reply's they have helped me a lot! Specially Jason for that long reply, I much appreciate it :)

[Kathlyn]

hi they can read in to any situation and any one can do that by practice
and give reading you have the power to change your life and no psychic or futuristic has a clue how that will come around we attract what we think so being positive and staying in the now and working towards your desires will enable change in you life
Take the power into you own hands and mind and don't dwell on fortune teller's it is all for a fast buck and you can alter your own future... Just my opinion as I have listened to many fortune tellers and some could give a reading and see stuff but not the future that is only my opinion and yes I have wasted money in doing so....
Goodluck to a happy future

[Nicole]

Casting spells, performing rituals and speaking to psychics are ways of not having faith in yourselves. It is you looking for something outside of you to manipulate what you want to come to you. I used to read spell books all the time when I was a teenager, I was all into tarot cards and having my cards read, up until about the beginning of 2008. Finally one day I just stopped. My friend who reads tarot from time to time finally had an in depth discussion with me one day and things really made sense. We talked about how it can be a very dangerous thing to allow someone else to have control over your mind. When you are trusting in a stranger to give you advice about your life and predict events in your life, you are allowing yourself to be opened up to their influence. Even with the most innocent of reasons for telling you something.

They tell you, "Oh nothing is going to happen this year, it will all happen next year", and you don't "believe" what they have predicted and set out to prove them wrong. But... what is your main focus on? The prediction because part of you actually believes in the stuff and what that psychic or tarot reader told you and you want to prove to yourself that they don't have any power over your life or future. Been there, done that. My advice is as someone mentioned in here, follow your intuition. Study on how to deliberately create your life, then you will see your fortunes that YOU predict come true!

[Jilly]

Thanks, I coulnt have said it better..Ditto...JILLY

[Kristy Robinett]

I am a Psychic Medium and a LIfe Coach. I won't bore you with my life story and how I got to this point (you can read it off of my page or my website if you like), but I will tell you that when I do readings I am very cautious of predicting the future. Sounds weird, doesn't it? But I do believe that we create our own life. We each have free will and free choice and a good Psychic should be there to help spotlight the differing roads that you can taken and spotlight which ones your angels and guides believe will give you the best outcome. I have had clients see me and are apprehensive because their past readings were destructive to their subconcious. "You will never find love." "Your job will stink and you won't make money until..." It makes me want to SCREAM. And so those words replay over and over again in their head and they begin to create that vibration, which in turn creates the very prediction.

If you don't like what a psychic says - change it. You have that free will to do it!

Therefore, you have to be very careful with whom you trust giving you a reading. The best thing, though, is to trust your own gut. If it feels wrong, it probably is. Don't let your life be ruled by any reading, horoscope, etc. This is your life. Nobody elses.

[Nicole]

You have put this so perfectly.

[Jilly]

In regards to Law of Attraction/Psychic and in response to this comment: In my view, when you go outside yourself in the first place to seek guidance from a Psychic you are going OUTSIDE plain and simple. The law of attraction instructs one to go inside and stay there. The two don't mix I'm afraid. If you want guidance from a psychic, go to one and leave it at that. If you want to practice the Law of Attraction, then Practic that. I'm afraid you can't have your cake and eat it too in this case. Again let me remind you that this is just my opinion. I practice the law of attraction for myself only. I have always been of the mind for Psychic's to keep there abilities to themselves. Just as they can give you good advise as well as bad, so can the non-psychic practicioner. So why bother I say.
You say "dont let your life be ruled by any reading etc"...well the seed has been planted...I dont care what you say...something is going to grow from it. And If we are not to take any stock in the reading, again Why Bother!

[Nicole]

Yup, I agree completely with everything you said right here. I was a junkie to phone psychics and while they were all very nice women and most of them were compassionate in their readings, most people do not consult psychics when they are feeling sure of themselves. As a result of that they are often more susceptible to suggestions. It is a huge drain on the wallet. Also the fact is people can say they don't believe, well then why are they even talking to psychics if they don't believe it anyway? If people really just want to give their money away with no hopes of getting anything in return LOL I have a paypal address or amazon wishlist that you can send me donations to!