Moving on

[Karina Disla]

Hey guys I haven't been on for awhile only because I've been really busy with school and work. However, I would anyonels insight on moving on after being in a relationship. In my case I just got out of a 5 year realtionship and its been somewhat hard trying to cope with the fact that I'm single and realizing that I need to move on.so for anyone that can relate or has any type of advice on this subject, please give me your opinion.

[Wendy Pablico]

Karina...it's his loss allow your self time. The pain will become lesser each day when you're operating in the positive. Since you are a member of CCOR just maybe it's time to move on someone who really want a relationship with you can arrive.

I didn't see my last breakup coming either or maybe I was in denial. I knew it was his loss and I prayed to God and asked him to pick my soul mate. I later learned it was the guy I met 3 1/2 years earlier when he touched my hand as we were being introduced I heard a soft sound of chames a peaceful sound. I thought it was strange I just met the man I didn't even know his last name LOL.

Even though I was going through my grieving what I felt was happening I remain a good person. My ex wasn't the right soul mate I have nobody to blame we picked each other. I never forget the Saturday I was feeling so alone and was now acknowledging it's over when I was sick he didn't come to my aide which was part of our vows.

One day I went to the roller rink to get away I got there and all I did was mainly sat and stared out into space the peaceful man rolled up to me and said wwooo girl I can hear you thinking all the way over here" I laughed shortly there after we became more than friends we'll celebrate our 20th anniversary 2009.

What worked for me I believe he nolonger existed...well he didn't in my life and I believe my Angel of mercy suggested I my self pick how long I need to grieve. After going through 2 failed marriages I picked no more than 60 days and I will move on even if I'm still hurting. The most painful part of it all children suffered with me we had a son together and we both had children prior it didn't bother him.

Now 20 years later I have not cried or been unhappy. I'm living in peace with someone who believes and honor our wedding vows not only he listen to my need he provide what I need without asking.


I raised my standards each trip because I didn't deserve it, I didn't think he didn't deserve me!!


Allow grieving time with a date to move on you are a beautiful reboot your life raise the bar!

You will be okay...
Wendy

[Karina Disla]

Thank you so much Wendy for your words. Reading your story brought a smile to mY face because it made me realize that will be better days for me and I will overcome this sooner or later. Thank you so much..u really made mY day!

[Wendy Pablico]

You are so welcome....just wish him well they always think the grass is greener on the other side. You will be more than just fine. If you need me I'm only one page away okay!!

Don't grieve to long...make it's enough!! When you are ready to move on turn around and make a motion like you are closing the door that's when you will move on!!

You deserve to be happiness!!