The 100 Day Reality Challenge

Before You Begin

Decide what area of your life you want to work on and then decide what you want. There are several important points to know about affirmations:
• Use the present or past tense. Do not use the future tense. You want your mind to know it has already happened
• Be POSITIVE. Use the most positive terms you can. Never use negatives in affirmations
• Write them. As you are learning to do affirmations, write them down so you will remember exactly what you want to say. Keep them short and very specific. Personalize them with your name.
• Believe. Always believe that what you are saying is happening. The more you believe, the stronger the affirmation.
• Repetition. Being repetive and persisteant helps to set them in your head and in your unconscious being.
• Time. Always have a specific time daily set aside for your meditations, affirmations and visualizations. This will help set a pattern for you so you will do them daily.

Affirmations for Daily Living
• I am at peace with the Universe
• I love and accept myself.
• I am unique and loving, loved, and free.
• I am safe and always feel protected.
• I acknowledge all of my feelings because I am in touch with my feelings.
• I am surrounded with loving, caring people in my life.
• I am loving and accepting of others and this creates lasting frienships for me.
• I trust my inner being to lead me in the right path.
• I do all I can every day to make a loving environment for all those around me, including myself.
• I am always connected with the Divine Love in the Universe.
• My inner vision is always clear and focused.

Affirmations for Health
• I have the power to control my health.
• I am in control of my health and wellness.
• I have abundant energy, vitality and well-being.
• I am healthy in all aspects of my being.
• I do not fear being unhealthy because I know that I control my own body.
• I am always able to maintain my ideal weight.
• I am filled with energy to do all the daily activities in my life.
• My mind is at peace.
• I love and care for my body and it cares for me.

Affirmations for Abundance
• I am a success in all that I do.
• Everything I touch returns riches to me.
• I am always productive.
• My work is always recognized positively.
• I respect my abilities and always work to my full potential.
• I am constantly adding to my income.
• I always spend money wisely.
• A always have enough money for all that I need.
• I am rewarded for all the work I do.

Affirmations for Peace and Harmony in your Life
• I am at peace with myself.
• I am always in harmony with the Universe.
• I am filled with the Love of the Universal Divine Truth.
• I am at peace with all those around me.
• I have provided a harmonious place for myself and those I love
• The more honest I am with those around me, the more love is returned to me.
• I express anger in appropriate ways so that peace and harmony are balanced at all times.
• I am at one with the inner child in me.

Affirmations for My Spirituality
• I am free to be myself.
• I am a forgiving and loving person.
• I am responsible for my own Spiritual Growth.
• I have given myself permission to be at one with the Universe.
• My strength comes from forgiveness of those who hurt me.
• I am worthy of love.
• The more I love, the more that love is returned to me.
• Love is eternal and ever-lasting.
• I nurture my inner child, love her and have allowed her to heal.
• I am responsible for my life and always maintain the power I need to be positive and have joy.

http://www.mjbovo.com/Affirmations.htm

Self-affirmations are:
• Healing, positive self-scripts you give to yourself to counter your negative self-scripts.
• Vehicles by which you can free yourself from the over-dependence on other's opinions, attitudes, or feelings about you and feel good about yourself.
• The visualization of a new order and sense in your life, which you can work toward achieving.
• You take personal responsibility for your health and emotional stability.
• You let go of negative emotional baggage you have been carrying. Only then will you be able to deal with your life in a realistic and positive manner.
• The resolution of feelings from the past so that you can face the present with a less obstructed view.
• You give yourself permission to grow, to change, to take risks, to rise up, and to create a better life for yourself.
• You take a healthy `"selfish'' or self-oriented route in your life so that you can "let go'' of these people who drain your resources and keep you from experiencing full personal health.
• The recognition of your rights and affirming your claim on them, giving you an equitable chance of achieving your fullest potential.
• Success prophecies that, when visualized, imagined, or believed in, do come true.
What shapes can positive self-affirmations take?
I statements:
"I'' statements are one-line statements that can be repeated to cover three areas:
I am: A statement of who you are

This is a positive affirmation of a real state of being that exists in you. You can achieve a full list of I am Y statements by taking a personal positive inventory of your attributes, strengths, talents, and competencies. Examples include:
• I am competent I am energetic
• I am strong I am enthusiastic
• I am intelligent I am relaxed
• I am beautiful I am joyful
• I am a good person I am trusting
• I am caring I am generous
• I am loving I am courageous
• I am smart I am forgiving
• I am creative I am open
• I am talented I am sharing

I can: A statement of your potential
This is a positive affirmation of your ability to accomplish goals. It is a statement of your belief in your power to grow, to change, and to help yourself. I can Y statements are developed after you develop a set of "short-term'' (three to six months) goals. Examples include:
• I can lose weight I can grow
• I can stop smoking I can heal
• I can handle my children I can let go of guilt
• I can gain self-confidence I can let go of fear
• I can take risks I can change
• I can be a winner I can be positive
• I can be strong I can be a problem solver
• I can pass calculus I can handle my own problems
• I can laugh and have fun I can be honest with my feelings
• I can be assertive I can let go of being compulsive
• I can control my temper I can succeed

I will: A statement of positive change in your life
This is a positive affirmation of a change you want to achieve. It is a positive statement of what you want to happen. It is a ``success prophecy.'' I will Y statements are developed after you have set your priorities for the short-term goals you have set. Examples include:
• I will like myself better each day.
• I will gain emotional strength each day.
• I will lose weight each day.
• I will smoke less each day.
• I will control my temper today.
• I will give others responsibility for their lives today.
• I will grow emotionally stronger each day.
• I will smile more at my customers today.
• I will offer my comments in class today.
• I will praise my children today.
• I will feel good things about me today.
• I will sleep easily tonight.
• I will feel less guilt each day.
• I will face my fears courageously today.
• I will take on only what I can handle today.
• I will take care of me today.
• I will challenge myself to change today.
• I will manage my time better today.
• I will handle my finances wisely today.
• I will take a risk to grow today.
I am
I can Statements of Self-Belief
I will

The daily use of these "I'' statements is another form of self-affirmation designed to counter negative self-concept. It can result in a positive attitude, optimism, and can motivate you toward emotional growth and progress.

Affirmation Visualizations
There are word, images or pictures and scenario visualizations, all affirming positively.
Word Visualizations:
Step 1: Take any single target word about who you are, your ability, or what you want to accomplish. Write it on a 3 x 5 card.
Step 2: Get yourself into a relaxed state, preferably just before you go to bed. Hold the card about 12" to 24" from your eyes. Focus your eyes on the word and concentrate your attention. Hold this thought for up to 20 or 30 minutes.
Step 3: Do this exercise nightly for at least two weeks. As you continue, you are burning the image of your goal word into your mind. It will be with you in your thoughts as you proceed in your everyday life.

Image Visualization:
Step 1: Create or find an image of an object, person, or thing that embodies your goal for who you are, what your abilities are, or what you want to accomplish:
• a comfortable house a rainbow
• a diploma a sunset
• a cruise ship a calm ocean
• a happy, healthy child a sunny day
• a slim body a snow topped mountain
Step 2: Get yourself into a relaxed state and either look at the picture or imagine you reaching your goal. Do this for 20 minutes each night for one month.
Step 3: Get copies of your picture or a simulation of your goal, and tape them in places where you will see them as you go through your normal day.
Step 4: Continue to keep your images in place until you have accomplished the ``goal'' feelings of success and/or achieved the ``object'' success. The important thing is to believe that it is possible to achieve. This motivation is the most important step on your journey to success.

Scenario Visualizations:
Step 1: Once you have a goal in mind for yourself, daydream a full color movie in your mind of what your life would be like if you achieved the goal.
Step 2: Get a tape recorder and talk out the whole movie on tape. Be fully descriptive, colorful, positive, and uplifting. Use your imagination to the fullest and describe how positively you will be handling the change resulting from your goal attainment. Describe how key "significant others'' in your life will cope successfully with your change. Save this tape for future reference.
Step 3: Write out a description of the goal attainment scenario, and keep it handy for future reference.
Step 4: When you are in a relaxed state, listen to the tape and read your description of the scenario every day for two weeks.
Step 5: Refer back to the tape and script as time goes on until you have reached full attainment of your goal.

Self-affirmation statements
These forms of affirmation are words, phrases, or statements written on 3 x 5 index cards and placed where you can see them daily and be reminded of positive aspects about yourself. Every time you see these affirmation cards they will remind you to affirm yourself about these positive qualities or attributes. State all affirmations in a positive way.

Suggested places for affirmation cards:
• mirror in bathroom dashboard of car
• mirror on dresser desk at office
• closet door desk at home
• refrigerator door in your wallet
• front door in your brief case
• bedroom door in books you use at work or school
• at your telephone

Affirmation word examples:
• bright capable
• creative strong
• intelligent beautiful
• smart giving
• quick peaceful
• loving hopeful
• caring responsible
• successful problem solver
• calm quiet
• pretty handsome
• relaxed enjoyable
Affirmation phrase examples:
• think happy take it easy
• be calm think wisely
• take action work smart
• do it take the time
• do it now have fun
• be a winner relax and enjoy
• take a risk sit back
• dare to be different step back
• seize the opportunity take the lead
• get in control give them space
• let go believe in me
• let them be trust in me
• let it be enjoy good health

Affirmation statement examples:
• I can be a winner.
• I am the best friend I have.
• I have solved problems like this before.
• I have the ability to handle this.
• I am a capable human being.
• I deserve to love and to be loved.
• I am a skillAful and artistic person.
• I can show others a good example.
• Letting go is best for them and for me.
• They will thank me in the future.
• Nothing is worth losing my sanity over.
• I am responsible only for my own feelings.
• I owe no one explanations for my behaviour, which is legally, morally, and ethically correct.
• I deserve to have my rights recognized.
• I am a deserving human being.
• I deserve to enjoy the fruits of my labour.
• I deserve to be rewarded for what I do.
• I love myself for who I am.
• It is OK to be selfish if I don't hurt anyone.
• I like the way I handle problems.
• I am able to handle any problem I face.
• I have the right to feel the way I do.
• My children will benefit from my healthy changes.
• My children will survive my healthy changes.
• My family will benefit from my relaxing more.
• I deserve to relax more and take it easy.
• There are beautiful things happening in my life daily.
• I experience the excitement of growth daily.
• Change is a blessing I am working toward.
• Taking risks is the path to growth.
• I grow in love daily.
• I face each new day as a race to be won.
• I am winning in the race of life.
• I am a rich treasure ready to be found.
• Let others know who I am.
• Say hello to a new person today.
• Open up to be loved today.
• Be responsible. Relax!
• Letting go is loving
• Be free of guilt today.
• To be loved I must love.
• God does not make junk.
• There are opportunities in life to be tried.
• My possibilities are endless.
• Success is to be enjoyed.
• Open myself up with one new person today.
• Belief in self is a step toward personal growth.
• I can handle all changes that come my way.
• There is nothing I cannot handle.
• Smile and let others in on the secret.

Affirmation of the day exercise
Write a single positive affirmation on thirty 3 x 5 index cards. Take one card a day for each day of the month. This card is your affirmation for the day. When you get to the last card start again.
To make this daily affirmation process grow, write out thirty different affirmations for each month of the year. Keep the 360 cards in a recipe box and continually use the collection year after year, adding new affirmations as you need them.

http://www.coping.org/growth/affirm.htm

1. Every day my life improves in every way.
2. The Universal spirit guides and protects me at every step in my life.
3. All the forces in the Universe combine to fulfill my every wish.
4. Each breath that I inhale fills my body with strength and power.
5. Success is my second nature and I envision and obtain success in any activity that I undertake.
6. I am grateful for everything that I have received in my life as well as for everything that I will be receiving in the future.
7. I control my thoughts and create the reality that I want to.
8. I am rich, successful, healthy and happy.
9. I let go of all past baggage and concentrate only on the present.
10. I release the need to get the approval of all and sundry and am contented in getting only my own approval.
11. I always give my best in any activity that I undertake and therefore I am successful.
12. I am perfectly healthy in mind, body and spirit.
13. I take complete responsibility for everything in my life and therefore I am in a position to lead the life that I want to.
14. My life is full of joy and happiness and I radiate joy and happiness.
15. The Universe and I are one.
16. I deserve and get goodness from the world and in turn I give goodness back to the world.
17. The more I give away anything, the more of that thing I get.
18. I understand that the Universe is limitless and I am open to receive all that is offered to me.
19. I am a loving and caring person and I am always surrounded with loving and caring people.
20. I love, respect and accept myself as I am.
21. There is enough for everybody in the world and I get what I need without affecting others.

http://www.self-help-and-self-development.com/daily-affirmations.html

I love and respect myself as I am.
I am a money magnet and I attract money.
I am rich and money conscious.
The Universe (or God) provides me with enough money to satisfy all my needs.
Money flows into my life abundantly.
In my world, I am the most important person.
I am happy and radiate happiness.
I radiate and attract love.
I love meeting and interacting with people.
I am strong and healthy.
I am health conscious and love exercising.
I am energetic and love completing my work in time.
I love speaking and whenever there is a group, words come out of my mouth spontaneously.
Life is full of fun and happiness and I enjoy it to the fullest.

I love gathering knowledge and studying comes to me naturally.

I am a trustworthy person and that trust is reflected in the people who come into my life.

I am unique and as good as or better than the rest.

I am proactive and make friends easily.

I love my body, take good care of it and radiate beauty.

I love my wonderful job which has immense opportunities for promotion and betterment.

I study and comprehend fast and easily. Doing homework is fun and pleasure.

I forgive XYZ from the bottom of my heart and pray for her/his betterment.

http://www.self-help-and-self-development.com/positive-affirmations...

• "I am Successful, Rich, Healthy and Happy."
• "By _________ (put your desired date) I choose to earn _______ $ monthly by doing whatever ethical, legal work that is necessary."
• "I am grateful to life for all that I have received till now and for all that I will be receiving in the future."
• "I can do it."
• "I feel good about myself and about everybody around me."
• "All is well. Everything that is happening is only for the highest good of me."
• "The past is gone. I live only in the present."
• "I love myself unconditionally."
• "I am a loving, forgiving, gentle and kind person."
• "I understand that change is inevitable. I welcome change and adapt myself to change."

Note: These affirmations are also known as money affirmations.
1. Money is good.
2. I love money.
3. I release all resistance to money.
4. Money flows into my life easily.
5. Everyday my bank balance is more than that of the previous day.
6. I enjoy being wealthy.
7. I am a money magnet and attract money continuously.
8. Money ideas come to me easily.
9. I am getting more and more prosperous day by day.
10. Being wealthy is my inherent right and I claim it now.
11. I release the need to live in poverty.
12. I let go of all internal struggle to earn more money.
13. I recognise excuses for not being prosperous and replace them with determination.
14. I let go of all resistance to prosperity on the soul level.
15. I love and accept myself unconditionally.
16. I approve of myself and feel great about myself.
17. I radiate love and respect and in return I get love and respect.
18. I am a well loved and well respected person.
19. I am a cultured and wise and yet, a humble person.
20. My high self esteem enables me to respect others and beget respect in turn.
21. I am free to make my own choices and decisions.
22. I am a unique and a very special person and worthy of respect of others.
23. My high self esteem allows me to accept compliments easily and also freely compliment others.
24. I accept others as they are and they in turn accept me as I am.
25. It matters little what others say. What matters is how I react and what I believe.
26. All is well in my world and I trade love and acceptance with the world.
27. I have high self esteem as I respect myself.
28. I deserve all that is good. I release any need for misery and suffering.
29. I release the need to prove myself to anyone as I am my own self and I love it that way.
30. I am solution minded. Any problem that comes up in life is solvable.
31. I am never alone. The universe supports me and is with me at every step.
32. My mind is filled only with loving, healthy, positive and prosperous thoughts which ultimately are converted into my life experiences.
33. My mind is full of gratitude for my lovely and wonderful life.
34. I consciously release the past and live only in the present. That way I get to enjoy and experience life to the full.

HEALING AFFIRMATIONS
1. Every day in every way I am getting healthier and healthier.
2. I eat healthy and I stay healthy.
3. Every day my eyesight is better than the previous day.
4. I get good sleep every night and I get up fresh every morning.
5. I love exercising and I exercise every day.
6. I am grateful for my healthy body and I bless every part of my body.
7. Perfect health is my divine right and I claim it now.
8. Every cell in my body is healthy and radiates health.
9. My immune system is very strong and can deal with any kind of bacteria, germs and viruses.
10. Every organ in my body is healthy and functions at its optimum scale.
11. I am pain free in every respect and my body is full of energy.
12. Throughout the day I am full of energy.
13. I breathe deeply and every breath energizes me.
14. I love myself in totality and I radiate energy.
15. My body metabolism is at its optimum and provides me with all the energy that I need.

1. "I can do it."
2. "Every passing second, the distance is becoming smaller and smaller."
3. "My stamina goes on increasing with every step that I take."

If you are into body building, then it helps to concentrate on one body part as you exercise it. The affirmations given below will make my point clear.
1. "Every day my biceps are growing bigger and bigger."
2. "With every sit up (or crunch or whichever exercise that you are doing) my abs are getting sharper and sharper."
3. "With every press my shoulders are getting more and more muscular."
4. "Every day in every way my body is becoming more and more muscular."
You can devise your own affirmations on similar lines for specific body parts.

If you are a tennis player, then following affirmations may help:
1. "I have a perfect backhand shot and I hit it with ease."
2. "I have a very strong serve and I place it where I wish to."
3. "Return of serve is my strong point and I place the ball wherever I wish."
4. "My lobs are perfect and I always score points of them."

If you follow a general fitness routine, then the following affirmations can be of help:
1. "Every day in every way I am becoming fitter and healthier."
2. "I enjoy my daily workouts and they make me feel energetic."
3. "My metabolism has improved as a result of my exercises and I am leaner and fitter."
4. My daily exercises make me stronger and fitter."

Combine two or more of these exercise affirmations as per your need and repeat them in your mind as you do your workout. Also, try to visualize the end result that you desire with your workout. The combination of affirmations and visualization is very very potent.

LOVE AFFIRMATIONS
1. I am surrounded by love and everything is fine.
2. My heart is always open and I radiate love.
3. All my relationships are long lasting and loving.
4. I see everything with loving eyes and I love everything I see.
5. My partner is the love of my life and the center of my universe. He loves me as much as I love him.
6. In life I always get what I give out and I always give out love.
7. I encounter love in all my relationships and I love these encounters.
8. I deserve love and I get it in abundance.
9. I have attracted the most loving person in my life and life is now full of joy.
10. I love myself and everybody else and in return everybody loves me.
11. Everywhere I go, I find love. Life is joyous.
12. My partner and I are perfect match for each other and the love between us is divine.


FORGIVENESS AFFIRMATIONS
1. The past is gone. I live only in the present.
2. I live in the now and design my future. The past has no effect on my present.
3. I follow the principle of live and let live.
4. I forgive myself for being imperfect like everybody else. However, unlike most people, I am living the best life that I can.
5. As I forgive myself, it becomes easier to forgive others.
6. As I follow the path of forgiveness, life becomes a new, clean slate on which I can draw my new life plan as I wish.
7. Each day is a new opportunity. Today is the first day of my new life.
8. I forgive everyone from my life in the past and love myself into the future.
9. I move beyond forgiveness to understanding and I have compassion and kindness for all.
10. I am forgiving, loving, gentle and kind and am safe in the knowledge that life loves me.

1. I am at my ideal weight and I easily maintain my ideal weight.
2. I love being physically fit and am slowly but surely approaching my ideal weight.
3. My metabolism rate is at its optimum and it helps me in maintaining (or reaching) my ideal weight.
4. I love eating healthy food and it helps me maintain (or reach) my ideal weight.
5. I love exercising daily and it helps me maintain (or reach) my ideal weight.
6. I am a physically active person and that helps me maintain (or reach) my ideal weight.
7. Every day in every way I am getting slimmer and fitter.
8. I properly chew all the food that I eat so that it gets digested properly and that helps me in maintaining (or reaching) my ideal weight.
9. I breathe deeply every time so that my metabolism is at its perfect rate.
10. I love myself unconditionally.
11. Life is beautiful and I enjoy life by staying fit and maintaining my ideal weight.
12. Every physical movement that I make burns the extra fat in my body and helps me to maintain my ideal body weight.
13. Every cell in my body is healthy and fit and so am I.
14. I easily control my weight through a combination of healthy eating and exercising.

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Hi Craig.

I'm just starting the 100 days, and this will help a lot with my affirmations. Thanks for sharing!

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Welcome Jerri :)

Also look up Afformations, I have found this to be even better actually

Good luck with your first season :))

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Hey Craig, This article is very detailed and Helpful. Thanks for taking time to share with us.

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You are most Welcome Arun. Best of luck and go watch the Finding Joy Movie :)

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Thank you for this. I particularly like the daily affirmation cards, great idea.

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You are welcome Alison. Best of luck to you:)

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Hi Craig, thanks so much for sharing. I only found this website today, and I'm so grateful for your lists... they will help me on my life journey.

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Hello Rachel :) you are very welcome I'm glad that it will help you. Best of luck and share what you feel will help us also.

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thank you very much Craig, it will help me a lot in this new journey!

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Thank you Craig, I am on Season 1 and am grateful to you for putting this up as it helps me to define things alot more, this is great and very detailed.
Olga

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