I want to Dream...but feel unworthy

[Lorraine Zajac]

Help!! I want to dream big, and I do dream big. But the problem is deep down in the subconscience, there is some resistance and feelings of unworthiness that blocks my manifestations.

Anyone else overcome this? Any tips?

Thanks for any input!!

Cheers!!!

[Nichole]

Hi Lorraine, This also was my struggle before the challenge. I can tell u with certainty that it takes starting smaller (which squelches that PERFECTIONISTIC fear of failure), a leap of faith (why are we so quick to put our faith in others and even deities that don't even exhist, yet we refuse to have faith in ourselves? This is irrational and it has to change.) What does it is repeating positive affirmations, journalling and visualizations. Without those it continues to be a struggle, with them, glory shows up happily at our door. AND the GRATITUDE IS KEY. That's where the attraction occurs. Have u seen the movie The Secret? Go get it today!!!! Last but not least, I conciously choose DAILY to promise to give myself the same energy, enthusiasm, and COMMITMENT that I would bend over backwards to give to anyone around me, all while telling myself that I am capable of loving and taking care of myself with the same vigor as I would do a best friend. I step up and become my own best friend. Cheers, love, luck and peace to you. Nichole

[Lorraine Zajac]

Thanks for sharing Nichole. I'll do just that...continue my affirmations & visualizations.

[Nichole]

Also, we have to be VERY VERY VERY careful what statements we repeat to ourselves and what statements come out of our mouths. Unfortunately it works the other way around too. Repeating negative statements reinforces the negativaty, so we have to be vigillant in turning around our thoughts and statements. If you hear yourself saying, thinking or writing negative things, STOP and think of a way to turn the statement around. Like the above statement. Instead, say: "I am free of fear" "I AM capable of taking care of myself and relying on myself" "I am worthy of the energy I give to strangers and family, I am worthy of giving myself MORE" "I am free of difficulties and negative thoughts"

Good luck and will to you. Nichole

p.s., now I must offer myself the same amount of care and time as I just so generously bestowed on you :) off to affirmate and journal :) :) :)

[emina avi]

Hey there = ) I am was in the exact position as Lorraine, and I think your advice was great ! It's really something I've come to realize after learning about the LOA, we always need to pay attention to the way we interact with ourselves.
Thanks and best of luck !
xoxo
emina

[Jennifer Kaiton]

Yes! Become very aware, like an investigator of your inner dialogue for it is what you create on the outside.
I did an exercise of writing down everything I said to myself for 1 day (take a journal everywhere with you) and then look over the phrases and ask #1 Is this state true? #2 Would I say this about someone else? #3 What positive dialogue can I replace for each negative phrase?

Another great way of ridding the subconscious of "blocks" is a practice called B.E.S.T. Bio Energetic Syncronization Technique developed by Dr. Morter. Go to www.morter.com to learn more and find a practitioner who practices it near you. I've been a patient of it for 2 years and am now learning how to be a practitioner. It's used as an additional therapy by many Chiropractors.

Blessings!

[Christine]

What Nichole said is true. I had to go through a period of "brainwashing" myself to feel like I was worthy of great things. I had to not only repeat affirmations that were positive, I had to focus and put my energy into believing they were true. Like all things, if you say the same things over and over to yourself, you start to believe it. I also realized that it is our duty on this planet to become the best that we can be. The more we accept the abundance the universe has to offer, the more we can give and share with those around us. Your success will influence the success of the people around you!

[Claire]

I also suggest using "I am enough" type affirmaitons such as

" I am lovable because I exist" ( Louise Hay)
"I am enough" J Lee Kraft
" I deserve all good in my life"
" I am at one with all of life"

Sometimes when we see how we are connected with ALL of life, this helps, as it transcends the ego and appeals to our concsiounes of life - we would not deny a cute puppy the best of care and love, or a fragile butterfly the fullest short life it has, yet we are part of ALL of this and deserve ALL of the good of life too.

Good luck :)

[Lorraine Zajac]

Thanks Claire. I will incorporate these affirmations into my daily routine. This is all still new to me and I know it will take time to reprogram all the negative recordings.

Good Luck to you also!!

[CreativeConqueror]

Thanks everyone. These tips are very helpful. It's a continuous process.