A great tip to add Sparks to any date.Tell me what you think.

[Xanthra]

I found this great tip on glamour.com and wanted to know if any have tried this before or what you think about it. The web link is: http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/blogs/smitten/2008/09/joan-riv...

What if you're on a date with a guy you really like, but there is just. no. chemistry. Like, none. You start to wonder if it's really a date -- maybe you're just two friends hanging out? Well, Joan Rivers (of all people) gave a GENIUS tip years ago that truly changed my dating life. If you follow her tip, the sparks will start flying immediately. Here it is, my dears....

Pretend that you're kissing him.

That's right. As you go through your date -- when he picks you up, as you walk to the restaurant, while you find seats in the movie theatre, as you walk home -- pretend in the back of your mind that you are kissing him the whole time.

Amazingly, this one little mental trick will transform you into a sexy, seductive goddess. You'll subconsciously change your body language (you'll lean more into him and stare at his mouth), the pace of your conversation (you'll naturally slow down and even blink more slowly) and even your confidence level will skyrocket (hey, you kissed him in your head already, so what's the big deal about an actual kiss?). He'll subconsciously pick up on these cues and by the time he actually plants one on you, the sparks will be FLYING.

[Missy]

I think this is a great tip!! Even if the date doesn't work out like you planned and you decide you don't want another one you will have had a good night with the anticipation making it exciting.

[kelly]

Most of My relationships are like that.. Mainly Fantasy.. Especially the wedding!! If only they knew.. Very exciting.. Still not married yet!
Kelly

[Alicia]

You're right kelly....if they only knew! :) This is a great tip--thanks!

[Elaine]

That sounds great. I think it would work.

[Yenna]

From Joan Rivers, of all people! It just goes to show that inspiration comes from every corner of life and that we are best served being open-minded and optimistic!