Help! realationship status on my profile

[Anniina]

I don't want to create singleness so how do I get the "single" relationship status off. And I don't want it to be "complicated" so can't choose that one eather. Should I just but "in a relationship" even if it is in the future???

[Isobel]

What feels best to you? Try each of the options on for size and you will know which to choose.

Tell a new story by all means :)

Isobel

[Rajesh Khandelwal]

Hi Anniina,
Its ok to be a single rather then getting a wrong partner and repenting for same and getting a stigma of married and divorced.
Life is small enjoy....Marriage is not the only part of life there are many more things above.
I am saying this coz i have my friends who are married and are now repenting.
Wana know what hell broke in there life..
You are cute and have a good smile i want the same to be through your life with best of wishes..
Take care and have a good day.
Rajesh

[Lena]

I chose to put 'In a relationship' as another affirmation for myself that I know I am in a wonderful loving relationship right now :)

[Rajesh Khandelwal]

Hi To all,
Well even i am happy with my life. But is it a person who do not have a partner should take a hasty decission to get some one.
I consider this wrong coz you will get what ever is there for in life and believe in God. He is there and will give you as per time comes.
Just go for good deeds never to hurt any one and you will get the best in your life. Have patience and you will get your dream girl or Dream man at the right time.
Please guide me if i am wrong.
Have a good day.

Rajesh

[Anniina]

Thanks to all of you who answered to my question. I think I need to explain myself a little. You see I am happy right now. I am single right now. I am dating right now. I have met a nice boy. I'm not too eagered to get a boyfriend anymore thanks to LOA. Still I would like to be in a relationship. I don't NEED a boyfriend but I do want one. I just think that stating that you're single co-creates singleness. That's like bad affirmations don't you think? So in order to not create singleness I don't want to state that it is what I am. However I'm not in a relationship yet. So do I state that I am "in a relationship" as it was an intention? Since it seem you can't get your relationship status be empty.

Anniina

[Rajesh Khandelwal]

Hi Anniina,
Thanks for your explanation and reply. Be what you are and let the smile on your face(which is now be for ever).
Come on you dont have to change for others. You should be comfortable in what you are. Why to trouble yourself.
Will you tell me frankly are you happy with your status now?
Let the world except with what your are. Please for god sake dont ever try to hurt you or your feelings for others. By doing so you will not be happy and comfortable.
True relationship is when the opposite person except you with what you are. If a person does not except you with what you are then its not true relationship.
What i feel is any relation,beauty & money will not be with you for ever. So why to bother yourself for the sake of a person who is not ready to except with what actually you are.
If i am wrong then let me know.
Have a good day.
Rajesh

[Anniina]

I am happy with me right now and I'm happy with my status too. This boy really likes me and I like him. I'm not gonna change myself for anyone and he's not asking me to. I don't know him enought yet to know if he excepts me but I think he does :) nor does he know me that well yet. I'm not gonna make big sacrifices about me in order to be in a relationship. But I would like to find someone that I could have a good and healthy relationship.

[Lena]

Yes I see what you mean Anniina. I have chosen to put 'In A Relationship' as an intention for where I want to be and it helps me find the feeling place of it.
Take care!

[Rajesh Khandelwal]

Hi Lena,
I believe in....
2 ways to keep a relationship for ever lasting:
Don't make it before understanding

Don't brake it after a misunderstanding

Take care.
Rajesh

[Lena]

Yes, that is a way to think of it true.

I believe one has to know yourself first before you can truly know another. Same with love. In any case, I am very grounded and trust completely in my heart.

Lena.

[Rajesh Khandelwal]

Life can be happier & stress less if we remember one simple thought:

We can't have all what we desire,
but
GOD will give us what we deserve.

I feel not every time we should tax our heart how about giving some chance for brain also to think.
In this selfish world its necessity to think by brain too...
Rajesh

[Lena]

Are you talking about logic now?

Trusting in your heart is the same as trusting in God, giving it over completely to him. What we desire and what we deserve may also be one and the same. There is no limit.

In any case, perspectives on these two things are different.
But I respect your thoughts.

Lena.