when everything goes wrong...

[john]

Ok, I'm new to all of this but experiance so far is proving negative. Since coming into contact with the law of attraction I have lost lifelong friends (after 'ordering' new friends) Wished for better neighbours (and had my usually friendly neighbours report me to the council and social services for things which just havnt happened)....the list goes on and on.
What the hell is happening?
HELP....

[DonnaOnTheBeach]

Hi John

Sorry to hear you haven't been enjoying your experiences so far! Something that I think happens to a lot of people when they first start to work with LOA is that things appear to get worse. This could be 2 things: 1 - things are moving out of your life to make room for the new things you want, or 2 - what you've been focusing on is the absence of what you want.

This happened to me at first - I wanted more money...desperately! And I focused and focused on how desperate I was for more money. Guess what I got??? More desperation!! Lol. Be sure to use the contrast to create what you DO want. So in my case, I started to focus more on how it felt to have money (even when I didn't!) and how it felt to cheerfully pay my bills (even when I was paying my bills fearfully!). Now it's all turned around and I can barely remember the problems I had.

Take a look at the forums of www.scienceofgettingrich.com - I remember reading a lot of good information on there about just this very thing happening. keep an eye out for Rebecca Fine's responses (the site 'owner') because she is really good with this LOA stuff.

Love

Donna.x

[john]

thanks Donna.
Its certainly made me think that there is something to all of this even if things have gone a bit pear shaped at the moment. All seems very strange though.

[Elisa]

Hi John: When I read your comment. I felt like you. A year ago, I started reading and putting in practice the LOA, some things come worse and other worst. I can say many things have changed since, but in this weekend something happened that made me feel badly.

I argued with my husband and my child. He told me that the LOA doesn't help me because I had hardly changed. I was very upset and I had forgotten everything what I had been learning.

But after reading my bible and thinking quietly, I realized that there are certain moments when we have to face our reality and learn of this. Nobody told us that living on Earth will be easy and we have to see the things with other eyes. I would recommend to read "The power of now" by Eckart Tolle. I am sure it will help you.

Blessings!

[Melody]

Hi everyone! Well...I would hardly say that everything has gone wrong but I would like some input. I decided on my manifestations for the next 100 days. And at the top of my list was "effortlessly have my car situation dealt with" I had been ignoring the payment for about four months and felt it was time to get that fixed up. So the next day I get a phone call and they want to repossess my car. I do believe I was not specific enough in my manifestation. If anything would "deal with it effortlessly" it would be repossession. Lol. Any suggestions?

[Sunny Belle]

Most definitely.."deal with it effortlessly" can mean repossession. You have to be very specific when making your intentions.

Be careful right now. I'm not saying you can't manifest the money you need or make arrangements in time to save your car but it can be difficult at this point because of the fear your probably holding on to. You're going to have to let go of the fear before your manifestations can arrive. I've had cars (notice plural) repossessed before knowing about LOA so I understand completely how you feel. You have to hold onto the feelings of having a car and not being behind on the payments or better yet owning a car with no payments. And the absolute joy and feelings of freedom you get because of it.

But don't get discouraged if this car is repossessed. The LOA DOES work. There are times though when we can't get our negative feelings and beliefs out of the way in time to allow our desires to manifest. Keep asserting your intentions and letting go of any fear, desperation, anxiety, etc. that you have.

In fact, I'll stand with you in believing that your car situation will be resolved to your satisfaction. That you will have no interuption in the use of a car. That you will have a car in your possession at all times and you will own the car you desire out right with no car payments.

Notice the wording...it could mean that if your car is repossessed then someone will loan you a car or that you will get the money to pay for your current car...or a new car...the possibilities are endless. What you want to do though is focus on what you want...not what you don't want. I heard it this way once and it really stuck with me...when making affirmations or intention statements...if you used the word NOT or DON'T...remove it and THAT is what's truly manifesting. Example: I don't want my car to be repossessed....what the Universe hears is "I want my car repossessed" and the reason why it works this way is because the original statement is full of fear and anxiety. And here's the deal with emotion...or at least the way I've interpretted it...emotion/feelings is the fuel for your manifestation. It's what gives your desires energy to manifest. And as you know negative feelings like fear are very powerful and that's why it seems like negative things manifest so quickly. That's why it's so important to really really FEEL how wonderful or joyful your desires are when they manifest....it gives them the fuel/energy to "appear".

You'll be in my thought and prayers!! Try not to focus on the "seen" but the "unseen".

Blessings...
Tam

[Melody]

Tam,

Thank you so much for taking the time to write me! I agree with you fully. It hasnt been taken...yet. But it probably will and Im really at peace with that. My worst feelings were feelings of fear about how others that are close to me would react. So I just bit the bullet and told them. All of them. I have already been offered so many rides and even the use of a car from my boyfriend. Nobody responded harshly to me like I had imagined. The idea of not having a car payment is so freeing and relaxing...and just getting rid of this from hanging over my head would be so worth the credit ding.

I am working on manifesting my next car. I dont think I will ever have a car payment again. I have never been a person to care about the status of something and the idea of having just a little used car that gets good gas mileage and is easy to fix and maintain sounds like a dream come true. So Im going to focus on that and how wonderful it would be.

You are in my thoughts also. Have a beautiful day!

Happy Manifesting,
Melody

[Rob]

well dont fear, i tried this some 14 yrs ago, and before i got anything i lost everything, home relationship, friends lifestyle, present plans and goals, but when the LOA had done its work i realised i had everything i wanted, and more, much more more, its deals with the when and how and sometimes it has to get rid of whats wrong, even if we think its good, before it can give us what we have asked for, Also the worry about the car, it doesnt matter if your thinking i dont want my car re possesed or i do want my car re possesed, the thing is your thinking of the car being re possesed so i do or i dont is immaterial, just keep the thoughts positive, hope this helps

[IsisOakmoss]

Hello to all! The laws of attraction are very presice and exact. The thing we have to keep in mind is not focusing on the feeling of wanting or you will keep wanting, needing will keep you needing and so on. So what we must do then is be greatful so then in return you attract more feelings of gratitude and things to be greatful for. Gratitude is the sure way. Always remember what it is you are greatful for. If you are angry with husband and children stop and think, some people dont have there children anymore or, they lost there husbands due to accidents. Suddenly you will see the reason for your anger is childish and a waste of precious time. Its when you really take a look at your life honestly and realize you have so many things in it that many do not. Ok, your cars being repossessed then you have to either focus on having the money to pay your bill or, focus on driving your car and it is paid off completely. After that you then need to take the steps to pay your bills on time. When we dont pay our bills or have a bunch of unpaid bills laying around the house it says to the universe " I dont have the money to pay my bills" " I am unresponsible" "I am unorganized" and so on. Then you shall surely attract all of those things into your life. We have to act the part we want to be. So we say to our self " I want to be a millionaire" ok, then you have to do what a millionaire does everyday. Millionaires dont sit on there duffs trying to attract things without acting. They move and dress a certain way. Talk with certain people. Work alot and have more to do then you can possible think. You dont get rich,skinny,smart,or even happy sitting around wishing. That will only attract more wishing. You must play the part you want to be like a audition. Just like an audition! Put on your acting shoes and begin to feel the part,be the part only then will you truely attract the part into your life. One more example. Lets say we want to be thin and healthy. Ok well we have to do what a thin healthy person does in order to attract the healthy thin you. That is eat like a healthy person. Exercise like a healthy person even smile for no reason that can always help. Self afirmations and vision boards do wounders but if you do them then just set them down and only look at them sometimes and never focus on the outcome you will constantly be in a state of waiting.Always focus on the final outcome. Dont worry how it will happen a way will come.Just see yourself living that life and then play that part to the fullest. That can be as simple as playing the part of a women or man that drives a car that is paid off. We can create heaven or hell which one do you intend to create. Something I try to do is stop using the word want. Instead I use intend. One a last note if things are going not according to your plan then its only because of you. Not anything else but you. We create our universe we have free will there will be nothing alive or dead that can control your outcome besides YOU! This is the truth. I love and cherish all of you with my whole being. Blessings and Namaste!

[Sunny Belle]

YES! YES!! YES!!! Wonderful description. Thank you for your wisdom. I love your practice of using the word intend instead of want...EXCELLENT!!! I'm starting that today. What a wonderful birthday present...today is my birthday...thank you!!!

[IsisOakmoss]

Happy Birthday Tam! May you have a year filled with all your dreams come true. Please stop by my page and chat with me any time that you can. I enjoy friends and friendship and I intend on making many friends here. ILove you and give you many blessings! NAMASTE! Krysten(Isisoakmoss) that is my screen name.